S/he's married!

[Dionysus]

This was discussed on the DST forum. Everyone over there said hell no. But, I know people over here tend to be more wild.

Would you date someone who is married?

[valkyrie]

If he and his spouse were separated, he planned to get a divorce and there were no children, I would.

[Taualumna]

No. I won't date anyone until the divorce goes through.

[texas*princess]

Maybe I'm just weird, but I would never want to date someone who has already been married, regardless if they were married at the time we were going to date or not.

I don't really know my reasoning for that, but that's just the way I've always been

[Sister Havana]

No. Not until the divorce is final. Before that is just asking for trouble.

[AlphaSigOU]

No way, no how... You say yer divorced? Lemme see the proof.

Married women I don't touch with a ten-foot pole - too many problems that crop up. It would be even worse if she was Masonically related (wife, widow, mother, sister or daughter of a brother Mason) - I could be brought up on un-Masonic conduct charges for screwing around. Worked hard enough to earn my square and compasses, sure don't wanna lose 'em!

[aephi alum]

Yes... if he was married to me.

[KillarneyRose]

If I were single, sure I would. But I wouldn't date him exclusively and I definitely wouldn't expect it to turn into a relationship (nor would I want it to)

[Rudey]

Originally posted by KillarneyRose
If I were single, sure I would. But I wouldn't date him exclusively and I definitely wouldn't expect it to turn into a relationship (nor would I want it to)

Home wrecker!!!

-Rudey

I have, but I didn't know he was married at the time.

Oops.

Now? NO

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

HELL NO. The divorced ones with kids are hard enough to deal with......BUT, if you aren't married by 30 be prepared to find many divorced guys in the dating pool.

[Jill1228]

I have...didn't know he was married. Found out he was married and kicked his butt to the curb...after ripping his sorry butt a new one and finding a contact number for his wife and telling her "your man is cheating on US". Was hella pissed off that he didn't have the balls to be straight with me!

And he had the nerve to try to get with me again? Oh hell to the naw!

As far as dating a separated man, I have. It took about a year and a half for his divorce to be final. We have been together for 6 years and married for a little over 2.

Would I do it again? Probably not!

[rainbowbrightCS]

Originally posted by AlphaSigOU
No way, no how... You say yer divorced? Lemme see the proof.

Married women I don't touch with a ten-foot pole - too many problems that crop up. It would be even worse if she was Masonically related (wife, widow, mother, sister or daughter of a brother Mason) - I could be brought up on un-Masonic conduct charges for screwing around. Worked hard enough to earn my square and compasses, sure don't wanna lose 'em!

My mom made my dad show her the divorced papers before they went on their first date. But I guess it worked becuase 3 months later they were married and 30 years later (this march) they are still together!

[damasa]

If she's putting out, it makes no difference to me.

Nah, I wouldn't, that's just wrong.

Yea I would, wtf am I talking about?

[winnieb]

Originally posted by AlphaSigOU
No way, no how... You say yer divorced? Lemme see the proof.

A friend of mine just got divorced, she was the second wife. Her husband was cheating-- my friend found out and met the g-friend. The gfriend told my friend she thought they were divorced--she has even seen the divorce papers. My friend's husband had scanned the papers from his 1st marriage as a .pdf file and changed the names, printed and gave it to the gfriend as proof.
Sorry proof isn't always reliable!!

To answer the question, no I would wait until the divorce was final--- or at least I would like to think I would wait!!

-wendi