What might have been....

absolutuscchick · #1 11-22-2003, 12:46 AM

Do you ever look at someone that you dated a little bit but then you decided you couldn't handle a relationship right then and wonder what might have been? I was just looking at partypics for ZBT at my old school and I saw pictures of this boy I dated last fall. Before me, he didn't at all want a relationship, then he met me and wanted one...i couldn't handle it at the time so he moved on. Like within a month he started seriously dating another girl....they're still together or so it looks like on partypics. I just keep wondering what might have been if I hadn't been so dumb...

--I really wish I was in a relationship too...being single REALLY REALLY sucks sometimes...

ETA: Ok, this question seriosly sounds retarded now that I'm reading it over....oh well........this is what being single for too long does to me!!

Hootie · #2 11-22-2003, 02:19 PM

No, I completely understand where you're coming from. I've been on both sides. Sometimes ya just gotta move on and put the past behind you. It's easier said than done - believe me. But you won't be happy living in a past that was never meant to be

And you'll have the days where you just wanna cry...but then something wonderful will happen and you'll forget why you were crying. And then, if you're lucky like me, you'll grow from it in ways you never imagined, and things will suddenly start to fall in to place. And someday, when you least expect it, a really great guy will be placed into your life - as a friend and maybe more - and you'll wonder why you thought life was over because some jerk-off couldn't understand you

absolutuscchick · #3 11-23-2003, 12:56 AM

Thank you for the advice Hootie!! It's nice to hear words of encouragement........while I'm definitely over that ZBT boy, there is still a boy who I can't get out of my mind and he is definitely a jerk-off who can't handle his emotions and instead of dealing with them, chooses to treat me like crap, get drunk all the freaking time, and be a general asshole.....Ok sorry to vent again, but I'm definitely not going to settle for anyone, and though it may take a long time its nice to know that someday it'll fall into place....

AchtungBaby80 · #4 12-01-2003, 01:32 PM

You can't think like that...remember, "what might have been" might not have been that great!

absolutuscchick · #5 12-01-2003, 01:56 PM

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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
You can't think like that...remember, "what might have been" might not have been that great!

Thanks!

ThetaPrincess24 · #6 12-01-2003, 03:28 PM

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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
You can't think like that...remember, "what might have been" might not have been that great!

I must agree with this statement. I've passed up relationships that i later thought may have been good for me, then even further down teh road i find out stuff aboutthat person and I"M SO GLAD it want meant to be.

Shawndalynn · #7 12-01-2003, 05:58 PM

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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
You can't think like that...remember, "what might have been" might not have been that great!
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that is exactly what I have to keep telling myself especially lately since me and my boyfriend broke up last week. I keep trying to find all the bad things that were there and there aren't many so it's hard. but I guess they are there or we wouldn't have broken up. I think I just don't want to see them.