WAY too young to get married?!

[Jill1228]

I always say do NOT get married before 25! (I was 17 days away from my 35th when I got married)

But this is one HOT MESS!

http://www.azcentral.com/news/articles/0928gypsy28.html

Bride, 12, storms out of Gypsies' wedding of the year in protest

Vadim Ghirda/Associated Press

Ana Maria Cioaba, 12, is an unhappy bride. But her father, Florin, the self-proclaimed king of the Gypsies, couldn't be more pleased to marry off his youngest daughter to a 15-year-old.

Alison Mutler
Associated Press
Sept. 28, 2003 12:00 AM


SIBIU, Romania - It was billed as the Gypsy wedding of the year. But the Saturday ceremony, launching a three-day party, got off to a bad start: The 12-year-old "princess bride," daughter of a self-proclaimed king, stormed out of the church in protest in front of 400 guests.

"Leave me alone!" Ana Maria Cioaba screamed at reporters, swearing at them as she sought shelter nearby. Her bridesmaids chanted slogans against the groom.

She returned to the church minutes later and, although she would hardly look at him, was duly married off to her 15-year-old bridegroom, a sign of the persistence of the ancient practice of child weddings in the Gypsy, or Roma, culture.

Although the legal age for marriage in Romania is 18, the country generally tolerates the Gypsy tradition of arranged child weddings. Still, some young Roma women are starting to rebel against the custom, said Gabriela Mihai, 17, a cousin of Saturday's bride.

"I don't want to marry, I am choosy and I have refused several marriage partners my parents presented to me," she said.

Ana Maria's marriage was performed by her father, Florin, who claims the title of king of the Gypsies, which his late father took. The elder man made an immense fortune trading in scrap metal and other items.

After the ceremony, the bride stalked out and refused to look at her husband, who walked uncomfortably two steps behind.

"What marriage?" Ana Maria said after the ceremony. Her 12 bridesmaids supported her rebellion, chanting, "Out with Birita!" referring to bridegroom Mihai Birita.

Even before the ceremony, it was clear the bride was reluctant.

"She has been crying all day, but the marriage will go ahead with or without her," Dana Cherendea, adviser to her father, said after the girl stormed out.

The adviser also said the bride will be punished for spoiling the lavish event.

The bride's family presented a dowry worth tens of thousands of dollars, the wedding feast included suckling pigs and thousands of bottles of wine, and the bride's Italian wedding gown cost $4,000.

Her father arranged for a horse-drawn carriage to carry the bridal couple through the city of Sibiu, 190 miles northwest of Bucharest.

"This is a happy day for the royal household," Florin, 39, said before the ceremony. "My youngest daughter is getting married."