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Every chapter is different, but some situations are more common than others. Probably the most common cause of the problem of pledge retention comes from choosing the wrong pledgemaster. Usually, the guy who wants it the most is absolutely the WORST guy to put in charge. The wrong guy wants to lord it over the pledges. He thinks its his job to 'weed out' the unworthy. He drives pledges away and then suggests that it shows how tough he is. He tells the chapter how 'cocky' the pledges are. The assumption is that those who stick it out are the ones who want it the most.
This is really, really bad thinking for a chapter that wants to compete and be strong. Here's the answer: pick someone from the rush committee to be pledgemaster - he has a stake in getting trhem all initiated - then make the goal to initiate them all. Be sure to have initiation the same semster you pledge them; too many get lost over the break.
The next most common problem is with chapters at commuter schools. VERY hard to retain numbers there, unless you put charismatic Brothers in charge of the pledge class, initiate them as quickly as practical, and make it clear to them that the fraternity is a big deal. I know this sounds obvious, even silly, but one of the reasons they drop out is that they have no emotional investment in the chapter. They must be made to understand, and quickly, that the Fraternity is a lifelong commitment that will give them benefits as long as they live. It is serious as well as fun.
The third most common reason they bail is, unfortuately, the most difficult to solve. When the guys pledge at parties in the glow of the moment and then realize quickly that the Fraternity really doesn't have much to offer, then they drop out right away. The way to beat that is: 1) you and your pals decide that you want to build the chapter into a great Fraternity, 2) you and your pals recruit the pledges, individually, into this effort - you inspire them with your passion; 3) go around the chapter as a whole; you'll beat yourself to death trying to motivate a bunch of lumps who delight in pouring cold water on your enthusiasm. They are losers and they want you to be one too, and they want to BE IN a loser fraternity. If this is the case, NEVER try to lead them during chapter meeting. Chapter meetings are the only place some of these loser types have any influence. You and your pals stake out a course, and move in that direction. Boldly. You'll be surprised: most of the rest of the chapter will follow. Everyone wants to ride on the bus that's moving.
Everything I've said is true. If you need any help, Bro, contact me.
Last edited by Firehouse; 03-26-2003 at 01:06 AM.
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