Rudeness

DigitalAngel126 · #1 05-19-2003, 07:34 PM

Greetings, sisters of Beta Sigma Phi.....

I just recently heard of BSPhi and it seems VERY interesting to me.. I had sent a message to a member that I found on ICQ and she was very rude to me

In any case, I'm still in the researching phase, but I just wanted to say that it seems like you girls have a wonderful sisterhood!!!!

bsp-mich24 · #2 05-19-2003, 10:33 PM

Hi DigitalAngel126

I'm sorry you were treated badly by a sister in our organization. Every organization has a few "bad apples" so to speak. On our forum you will find that we are caring and support one another.

Don't let this experience keep you from finding out what Beta has to offer.

erica812 · #3 05-20-2003, 04:22 PM

Welcome! I'm terribly sorry that your first contact with a Beta wasn't so great, but you will definitely find some friendly sisters here! I strongly encourage you to follow your interest in Beta Sigma Phi. My experience has been wonderful, and these fabulous ladies on GreekChat have been part of why I love being a Beta sister!!

If you have any questions, please ask. And when you are ready to explore membership, be sure to contact the BSP membership department...membership@betasigmaphi.org.

Erica

DigitalAngel126 · #4 05-20-2003, 06:58 PM

Okay, question: I see things like Online Kappa or Online Alpha Phi.... What's that??

erica812 · #5 05-20-2003, 11:37 PM

In short, online chapters are a supplement to traditional membership. Some Betas expand the bonds of sisterhood by joining online groups (chapters) to share ideas, experiences, and friendship. Some online chapters are very structured with actual online meetings. Others are more like chat groups. Something for every taste!

There is another thread on the second page of our forum called "Online Kappa." You can learn a lot more about online chapters there. (I would post the link, but I'm not sure how.)
You can also visit www.betajournal.com and click on Cyber City Council. There are links there to the online chapter websites.

Erica

Proud to be an ONLINE KAPPA!!!

Jill1228 · #6 05-21-2003, 02:21 AM

That sucks!
I am sorry she was rude to you! We do have some great sisters!

I was hesitant about joining at first but they greeted me with open arms.

Hell feel free to IM us anytime

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Originally posted by DigitalAngel126
Greetings, sisters of Beta Sigma Phi.....

I just recently heard of BSPhi and it seems VERY interesting to me.. I had sent a message to a member that I found on ICQ and she was very rude to me In any case, I'm still in the researching phase, but I just wanted to say that it seems like you girls have a wonderful sisterhood!!!!

DigitalAngel126 · #7 05-23-2003, 05:13 PM

Alright, so I sent an email in to membership and am going to be added to the prospective member database

!!!! I'm going to be moving though, in a few weeks, so they're going to wait to post it until they have my new address.. Still excited though!!!

erica812 · #8 05-24-2003, 09:27 AM

That's great news! I started my "Beta Quest" at this time just last year. It was a wonderful decision. Good luck!

Erica

DebbieRoberts · #9 06-09-2003, 11:26 AM

I am sorry to hear that you had a bad experience with one of our sisters. Unfortunately, every now and then you run into a bad seed. We got some names from international during the time that we were rushing, and one of the ladies in our area that we called said that she had the same experience with another chapter that she tried to contact. She was so hurt that she wouldn't even give us a chance. She said that when she called the chapter vice president to inquire about the chapter, the VP started asking her personal questions about what her husband did for a living, how much his annual salary was and what neighborhood she lived in, then the VP told her that they didnt think that she would be happy in a chapter like theirs.

Please don't let the rudeness stop you from seeking a chapter. I can assure that for the most part BSP is a great organization with loving and caring sisters.

Good luck in your journey.

Jill1228 · #10 06-09-2003, 12:55 PM

I woulda been hella pissed if I got that type of questioning. You should be interested in ME not what my husband does (unless he is joining the chapter), ya know?

erica812 · #11 06-09-2003, 01:29 PM

Talk about RUDE! Wow! I'm so glad that my chapter sisters are completely down-to-earth and respectful of each other. We are all very different...diverse backgrounds, interestes, and asperations. I will be leaving my chapter next May

but I hope that when I come back to visit someday, I will find that Delta Pi has continued to welcome women from all walks of life.

Erica

Barb · #12 06-09-2003, 11:21 PM

Oh my I hate that you were treated that way. Beta Sigma Phi has been one of the best things in my life. I have moved from one state to another and away from blood relatives but always have sisters around me. If you were here in Houston I would love to bring you to our Chapter and Council to show you how great our sorority is. Hang in there, you will love us and the organization.
Barb

DigitalAngel126 · #13 06-10-2003, 01:32 PM

It's okay...I understand the bad seed thing, we have a few in my chapter too (SK, not BSP

) Anyhow, I finally moved into my apt and got my phone number and addy straightened it out and mailed it in. I can't wait to hear from someone, although I won't be too surprised if there aren't any close chapters.

Ah well.

lwing · #14 06-13-2003, 01:11 PM

Most chapters are very open and welcoming. Summer is not when most chapters meet so you might not hear for awhile but if you are interested, keep in touch with International and let us know if you are getting contacted. We'll even call chapters for you to tell them about your interest. Strangely, most chapters don't care much about your husband except if he fits in with chapter socials. My chapter pays little attention to the husbands and none when we are rushing. We don't care what your salary is just if you are a fun person. I'd love to tell you that all 165,000 members are gems but I can't. 99.9% though are and even we have days when we might be off our best behavior so don't let one experience effect you. We are a great group of women.

gusmom2000 · #15 06-26-2003, 05:32 PM

HI! I just did a search for Beta Sigma Phi chapters in Warsaw, Indiana, and came up with a phone number. Nothing else, just a phone number, but if you're interested let me know. Indiana has a state council and three events plus a bowling tournement each year. We have a lot of fun! Let me know if I can help in any way in your search for a GREAT chapter!

Natasha