Is it better to be pursued or......

annice22 · #1 01-25-2003, 10:52 PM

First question, is it better to be pursued or to do a little pursuing?

Background info: Well, I really like this guy but sometimes I get mixed feelings from him such as he likes me as more than a friend and then I get that good buddy vibe from him. He's in a popular fraternity, which attract a lot of groupies. So, a friend of mine said to give him a call since we have each others phone numbers. Well, I called him last night before I went out to party just to see what he doing for the night. It was a nice conversation. Also, I would like to ask this guy to formals which is in March.

Well, my second question is: Are there any ways to up his interest or to make me stand out more from the other girls? Because he seems like he's interested in me but hey you never know.

If anyone can help, that would be great.

Annice

Betarulz! · #2 01-25-2003, 11:30 PM

As a guy, I know that it's a great feeling if a girl asks you to anything...whether you have feelings for the girl or not.

I think most guys would also agree that when they have been asked they usually say yes (it's the easiest date in the world...if you like her, well then you know she likes you and you can get past all the uncertainity).

So out of this, just ask him out to dinner or a movie or something.

To make yourself stand out, call him occasionally. Also, always call before if you are going to be attending a party his house is throwing. That's something that groupies don't do.

I still say just ask him.

annice22 · #3 01-26-2003, 10:31 AM

Thanks Betarulz! for the advice. I probably will ask him out but not until around March. Wish me good luck. But I'll keep you posted if anything good happens before that.

Annice

damasa · #4 01-26-2003, 01:01 PM

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Originally posted by annice22
Thanks Betarulz! for the advice. I probably will ask him out but not until around March. Wish me good luck. But I'll keep you posted if anything good happens before that.

Annice

Start making the moves as fast as you can...if you wait until march another girl can get in the picture and take you out of it altogether.

James · #5 01-26-2003, 01:30 PM

Yeah Beta and Damasa hit it right . . good luck

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sororitygirl2 · #6 01-26-2003, 09:45 PM

Oh, I LOVE being pursued... wined, dined and wooed the whole way!

But, if he's not doing it... you've got to. Go after him and don't be a groupie... yuck.

Hope it works out!