How much should they let slide?
This is kind of a sensitive topic just because it should have never happened.
We recently had a "get together" where there was a lot of no-no's going on. i.e. underage drinking And who walks in on the middle of it...an alumnae.
Does she throw a fit, regulate, send us home? Nope, she took a picture amd grabbed a beer.
I was horrified.(sp?) Since I'll be an alum very soon I've been avoiding these situations and letting the girls know that once I graduate I don't want to even hear about this stuff.
It's not that I don't think it should happen at all; I just don't want anything, like a revoked charter, to occur and ruin everyone's fun.
It seems to me like our advisors are letting us get away and at times even encouraging us to do more and more reckless things. It's like they've all decided that they want us to be more of a "stereotypical" sorority. This frightens me because one of the reasons I was drawn to this chapter is because it was so non-stereotypical.
I don't know what to do about this. Any advice?
p.s. I've heard of some of the fraternities are having similar problems. But with them it seems to be the younger alums being irresponsible.
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