I have to get this off my chest....

DGqueen17 · #1 04-28-2004, 11:36 PM

Maybe a month or so ago I started talking to a boy that I knew casually in high school. It led to flirting which led to HIM telling me that he was in love and blah blah.

So anyway everything was good, he was coming home to go to formal with me (he goes to the Naval Academy and I live in WV), and BAM!

We were having a slight disageement when he tells me that not only did he have sex with a girl over spring break (while I was in Washington because my grandpa died) he also had sex with a girl that weekend.

Of course I was devastated. Not only did he break my heart but I also didn't have a formal date.

So why am I still sad about this?

OtterXO · #2 04-29-2004, 12:09 AM

Well, I bet you're sad b/c a guy you liked disappointed you! It happens to everyone and I would venture to say this won't be the last time it happens to you. People are just jerks sometimes and he seems to be one of them. There's nothing you can do but move on and go forward! Stick to the people who treat you right!

valkyrie · #3 04-29-2004, 01:10 AM

It's understandable that you're sad -- I'm sorry to hear that he hurt you.

But...did you ever have a discussion about being exclusive? I think that unless two people come to an agreement that they will be exclusive and not date/sleep with anyone else, both people are free to do what they want. Of course, if you did have the discussion, he's an ass and you should run far, far away from him and not give him a second thought, and if you're morally bothered by him sleeping with other people than it's to be expected that you'd be upset by what he did.

Did he confess his love to you after mere flirting? You mention that you knew him before and then you flirted and then he said he was in love with you. If there's not more to it than that, he sounds like a little boy who mistakes love with something else, and in that situation too you're better off without him.

It sucks that relationship-type things can be so difficult, but if it makes you feel any better, all that suckiness means that someday when you find someone perfect for you, you will really, REALLY appreciate it.

hottytoddy · #4 04-29-2004, 03:23 AM

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Originally posted by DGqueen17

Of course I was devastated. Not only did he break my heart but I also didn't have a formal date.

So why am I still sad about this?

Can't beleive you let him ruin your formal still! You should forget this loser who sleeps with trash and go out with that other hottie that you almost took to formal. Although he wasn't worth wasting a dress over then I dunno....but he was a cutie.

DGqueen17 · #5 04-29-2004, 09:55 AM

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Can't beleive you let him ruin your formal still! You should forget this loser who sleeps with trash and go out with that other hottie that you almost took to formal. Although he wasn't worth wasting a dress over then I dunno....but he was a cutie.

Heh...welllll I guess formal wasn't totally ruined....I did go to the after parties! And I have a bangin' dress for next formal

DGqueen17 · #6 04-29-2004, 10:01 AM

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Originally posted by valkyrie

But...did you ever have a discussion about being exclusive?

Did he confess his love to you after mere flirting?

See, whenever I get involved with someone....I usually let them be the ones to let me know where they wanna take things. So he was always the one that said he didn't want to be with anyone else and such.

We talked a lot because I couldn't see him a lot such he was in the navy. And over spring break he was drunk and said he loved me. And I was like you are saying that because you're drunk you won't mean it tomorrow. But then he called me the next day and said it again so I guess I let my guard down.......

XOMichelle · #7 04-29-2004, 10:50 AM

Bastard!

Rudey · #8 04-29-2004, 11:07 AM

He's probably gay if he's navy.

-Rudey
--Is what my marine friend said

DGqueen17 · #9 04-29-2004, 11:41 AM

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Originally posted by XOMichelle
Bastard!

You know sometimes that's all you gotta say to feel better!

DGqueen17 · #10 04-29-2004, 11:42 AM

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Originally posted by Rudey
He's probably gay if he's navy.

-Rudey
--Is what my marine friend said

Well his roommate did walk around naked a lot. And he said sometimes they sleep in the same bed. Weird.

swissmiss04 · #11 04-29-2004, 12:17 PM

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Well his roommate did walk around naked a lot. And he said sometimes they sleep in the same bed. Weird.

Then I'd say you're better off w/o him. Bastard

BobbyTheDon · #12 04-29-2004, 01:04 PM

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Originally posted by DGqueen17
Well his roommate did walk around naked a lot. And he said sometimes they sleep in the same bed. Weird.

. . .

Rudey · #13 04-29-2004, 01:20 PM

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Originally posted by DGqueen17
Well his roommate did walk around naked a lot. And he said sometimes they sleep in the same bed. Weird.

Was he the inside spoon or the outside one? That matters a lot right now.

-Rudey

#14 04-29-2004, 01:54 PM

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Was he the inside spoon or the outside one? That matters a lot right now.

-Rudey

So are you implying that the "pitcher" is less gay than the "catcher"?

Regardless, i had a roommate that liked to walk around naked. He got a big kick out of surprising the rest of us by walking into the living room and plopping down next to us on the coach, naked as can be.

But we never shared a bed.

I think the "i've had sex with lots of girls" is a cover up for "me and my bunkmate are just SOOOO close"

Kitso
KS 361

valkyrie · #15 04-29-2004, 02:24 PM

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Originally posted by DGqueen17
See, whenever I get involved with someone....I usually let them be the ones to let me know where they wanna take things. So he was always the one that said he didn't want to be with anyone else and such.

Well, if he said that he sucks. Go have fun without him!!!