Problem with brothers
Okay this might be a little long but I have to ask so I can get some unbiased opinions. I asked in an earlier thread about talking to my best friends frat brother becuase we had gotten into a fight and weren't talking. Well I have been talking to his brother and I think it's going pretty good. Kinda slow but I am sure thats the best way for things. But he was the one who told me that my best friend was a jerk and that he didn't deserve me, etc. Well I haven't talked to my best friend for almost 2 weeks till last night when he called to apologize for being a jerk - and that him and his girlfriend had broken up. Well he ended up coming over to my apartment and we were talking and I had told him that I had kissed his brother becacause I thought it would be better if he heard it from me than someone else and to make sure he did not mind. Well he informed me that the guy I like is a player. So basiclly they are talking shit about each other to me. What am I supposed to do?? I love my best friend to death but he is a player to so it's not like he is perfect- far from it. But I do know that he cares a lot about me and he doesn't want to see me get hurt even though he has hurt me before. I guess making up for lost time. So I am in the middle of something that I really did not want to be in the middle of. I like his brother a lot but I don't know if he is going to play me or not but I am really scared that he might and I really don't want to deal with that right now. I just wanted to know what I should do. They are both totally awesome guys. And of couse I am biased to my best friend because I have known him for almost 5 years but I really want to get to know his fraternity brother better like we have been.
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