Sugary Recruitment Spring 2011

CranberryKiss · #1 01-31-2011, 05:25 PM

Hey all!

I'm a PNM at a smaller school where rush has become significantly more competitive over the years. We only have three sororities and over 400 girls rushing; we have been told that the maximum number of bids is 40 for each sorority, which adds some pressure! There is talk of adding a fourth sorority next year because demand is so high, but unfortunately for me, I enrolled in the largest rush class yet!

Recruitment begins in the spring, which I have been looking forward to since move-in day. I love the idea of a strong supportive community of women, and I can only hope that one of the groups will see me as a sister.

Recruitment began yesterday for us. Many of my friends are rushing as well, which is great as we can go through this experience together.

As there are only three groups, I will do my absolute best to conceal their identities. The names of the sororities are:

Skittles
Hershey's Kisses
Tootsie Rolls

Because recruitment is in the spring, I have met girls in all three groups, and have heard various things about each group.

However, I know incredible people in all three, and I would honestly be happy in any one. It makes no sense to listen to other people's opinions, especially if they have had no real contact with the groups. One girl's actions does not define the entire sorority, and I come to this recruitment with an open mind. I hope that I will be able to find a home in one of these groups!

AZTheta · #2 01-31-2011, 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by CranberryKiss

Hey all!

I'm a PNM at a northern university. It's a medium-sized school where rush has become significantly more competitive over the years. We only have three sororities and over 400 girls rushing; we have been told that the maximum number of bids is 40 for each sorority, which adds some pressure! There is talk of adding a fourth sorority next year because demand is so high, but unfortunately for me, I enrolled in the largest rush class yet!

Recruitment begins in the spring, which I have been looking forward to since move-in day. I love the idea of a strong supportive community of women, and I can only hope that one of the groups will see me as a sister.

Recruitment began yesterday for us. Many of my friends are rushing as well, which is great as we can go through this experience together.

As there are only three groups, I will do my absolute best to conceal their identities. The names of the sororities are:

Skittles
Hershey's Kisses
Tootsie Rolls

Because recruitment is in the spring, I have met girls in all three groups, and have heard various things about each group. Skittles has a reputation of having incredibly sweet but plainer girls, Hershey's Kisses is sometimes referred to as the sluttier group, and Tootsie Rolls is supposed to have the rich, go-getter girls.

However, I know incredible people in all three, and I would honestly be happy in any one. It makes no sense to listen to other people's opinions, especially if they have had no real contact with the groups. One girl's actions does not define the entire sorority, and I come to this recruitment with an open mind. I hope that I will be able to find a home in one of these groups!

good luck and hope you find a home.

CranberryKiss · #3 01-31-2011, 05:56 PM

Recruitment began yesterday, so I'll begin from there.

We first arrived at the center of campus where we were organized into groups. My group had about 60 girls; everyone was excited and we were all chatting as the Rho Gammas handed out name tags. None of my immediate friends were in my group, but I was happy to meet new people. A lot of the girls were so sweet and funny, and I was excited that I could be their sister. A couple of the girls though were disinterested in the whole thing! They kept saying how they were just doing this to meet people and how they weren't sure if they really wanted to be in a sorority. Umm, hello? The rest of us knew how competitive this was going to be, and it wouldn't be fair if a girl who wasn't really interested took a bid away from someone who truly did want to be a sorority. I tried not to let my annoyance show though; perhaps those doubting girls will make up their minds quickly and either drop out or commit to a sorority!

Anyways, the first group we went to was Skittles. All the sisters were really excited to see us, and as we walked into the building, cheered us through with their sorority chants. I think not enough sisters were there however because each sister took two PNMs with her to chat. I didn't like that feeling of direct competition with the other PNM I was paired with, and the room became incredibly noisy with conversation. A few sisters who just seemed to be floating around came up and talked with us, but I didn't seem to have much in common with them. Luckily, the last two sisters who I spoke to (the PNM with me got into a conversation about theatre with the original sister) were great; I had lots to talk about with them! I knew one of them from a campus cultural organization, which was a great surprise as I hadn't realized that she was also the President of Skittles! The last sister I spoke to was also very sweet, although the conversation was a bit stilted and awkward.

I left Skittles with mixed emotions. In general, the sisters I met were very sweet and welcoming, but I didn’t enjoy competing with the other PNM for the sisters’ attention. The conversations (other then with the President) also felt a bit forced.

Next up was Hershey’s Kisses. We entered the building to a group of loudly singing girls; as I walked through the door, I was instantly surrounded by smiling girls holding out their hands to introduce themselves. There were so many people that I didn’t even notice one of the sisters taking my hand to pull me aside to talk. Each sister was paired off with one PNM, which made conversation much easier. Their transitions were smooth, and every sister I talked to was excited about Hershey’s Kisses as well as interested in my activities around campus. I’m very involved on campus as well as volunteer every week and each sister seemed to appreciate that. They were all super friendly and outgoing, and I enjoyed speaking with each girl. Time seemed to fly by, and I was disappointed to leave such warm, friendly people. We left to loud enthusiastic singing, which was a fun surprise!

Finally, we came to Tootsie Rolls. I was already tired after the first two groups; I couldn’t imagine going to several in one day! As we entered the room, two sisters were instantly there to take our jackets and put them aside. We were welcomed to a group of excited sisters; there was no singing, but their enthusiasm was obvious. I can’t say enough good things about Tootsie Rolls. Each sister I talked to was so wonderful and funny and outgoing. They seemed to have great relationships with each other as well, which is such an important thing to see! They had put together a really cute refreshment stand, as well as played a slideshow as we all chatted. The only problem I had was that there were a few moments when I was talking to three sisters at once. I guess their transitions hadn’t been rehearsed (I’d like to think it’s because the conversation was so good!) but I never felt awkward or pressured. I asked about their philanthropy but the sisters seemed to want to talk more about me than that, which took me a bit by surprise. I wanted to show them how interested I was in their organization! Time was over so soon, and I couldn’t wait to see those girls again.

Tonight is another event where we will be meeting more sisters in each group. Then it’s time to pref them! As of right now, my choices in order are Tootsie Rolls, Hershey's Kisses and Skittles but I'm open to change! Maybe my opinions will change tonight!

I’m so nervous AND excited. I can barely do my psychology reading because of nerves!

BraveMaroon · #4 01-31-2011, 06:17 PM

As one of those girls who "wasn't sure she'd pledge but just rushed to meet people", let me put this out there for you.

1. There's some bluffing in that statement - that way, if they get cut after first round, they can save a little face.

2. Most people going through rush will figure out very quickly if sorority life is right for them or not. It's unlikely that they'll get that far into the process if they have zero interest.

3. A sorority's job during rush is to make you think that your life won't begin until you pledge PQR. They're very, very good at it - and it's possible that they'll charm one of the undecideds into pledging.

4. You can control none of this. Your job is to make sure that the sisters of PQR cannot live without you in their pledge class.

So, you know...

Knock 'em dead.

HannahXO · #5 01-31-2011, 08:17 PM

OP, I'm pretty sure I can tell what school you're from- and I am usually awful at guessing but this paired with a recent thread on recruitment at your school, I'm pretty sure I know...and with only three chapters it's really easy to know which is which.

Just make sure you're careful what you say! Good luck with your recruitment

IrishLake · #6 01-31-2011, 08:38 PM

Considering I think there is another thread on GC about this school, I think everyone knows which one it is.

Good luck, OP!

victoriana · #7 01-31-2011, 08:53 PM

You seem really sweet and open-minded... good luck with your recruitment!

Tulip86 · #8 01-31-2011, 08:59 PM

Good luck, keep an open mind and enjoy the experience!

AZTheta · #9 01-31-2011, 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CranberryKiss

Recruitment began yesterday, so I'll begin from there.

We first arrived at the center of campus where we were organized into groups. My group had about 60 girls; everyone was excited and we were all chatting as the Rho Gammas handed out name tags. None of my immediate friends were in my group, but I was happy to meet new people. A lot of the girls were so sweet and funny, and I was excited that I could be their sister. A couple of the girls though were disinterested in the whole thing! They kept saying how they were just doing this to meet people and how they weren't sure if they really wanted to be in a sorority. Umm, hello? The rest of us knew how competitive this was going to be, and it wouldn't be fair if a girl who wasn't really interested took a bid away from someone who truly did want to be a sorority. I tried not to let my annoyance show though; perhaps those doubting girls will make up their minds quickly and either drop out or commit to a sorority!

Anyways, the first group we went to was Skittles. All the sisters were really excited to see us, and as we walked into the building, cheered us through with their sorority chants. I think not enough sisters were there however because each sister took two PNMs with her to chat. I didn't like that feeling of direct competition with the other PNM I was paired with, and the room became incredibly noisy with conversation. A few sisters who just seemed to be floating around came up and talked with us, but I didn't seem to have much in common with them. Luckily, the last two sisters who I spoke to (the PNM with me got into a conversation about theatre with the original sister) were great; I had lots to talk about with them! I knew one of them from a campus cultural organization, which was a great surprise as I hadn't realized that she was also the President of Skittles! The last sister I spoke to was also very sweet, although the conversation was a bit stilted and awkward.

I left Skittles with mixed emotions. In general, the sisters I met were very sweet and welcoming, but I didn’t enjoy competing with the other PNM for the sisters’ attention. The conversations (other then with the President) also felt a bit forced.

Next up was Hershey’s Kisses. We entered the building to a group of loudly singing girls; as I walked through the door, I was instantly surrounded by smiling girls holding out their hands to introduce themselves. There were so many people that I didn’t even notice one of the sisters taking my hand to pull me aside to talk. Each sister was paired off with one PNM, which made conversation much easier. Their transitions were smooth, and every sister I talked to was excited about Hershey’s Kisses as well as interested in my activities around campus. I’m very involved on campus as well as volunteer every week and each sister seemed to appreciate that. They were all super friendly and outgoing, and I enjoyed speaking with each girl. Time seemed to fly by, and I was disappointed to leave such warm, friendly people. We left to loud enthusiastic singing, which was a fun surprise!

Finally, we came to Tootsie Rolls. I was already tired after the first two groups; I couldn’t imagine going to several in one day! As we entered the room, two sisters were instantly there to take our jackets and put them aside. We were welcomed to a group of excited sisters; there was no singing, but their enthusiasm was obvious. I can’t say enough good things about Tootsie Rolls. Each sister I talked to was so wonderful and funny and outgoing. They seemed to have great relationships with each other as well, which is such an important thing to see! They had put together a really cute refreshment stand, as well as played a slideshow as we all chatted. The only problem I had was that there were a few moments when I was talking to three sisters at once. I guess their transitions hadn’t been rehearsed (I’d like to think it’s because the conversation was so good!) but I never felt awkward or pressured. I asked about their philanthropy but the sisters seemed to want to talk more about me than that, which took me a bit by surprise. I wanted to show them how interested I was in their organization! Time was over so soon, and I couldn’t wait to see those girls again.

Tonight is another event where we will be meeting more sisters in each group. Then it’s time to pref them! As of right now, my choices in order are Tootsie Rolls, Hershey's Kisses and Skittles but I'm open to change! Maybe my opinions will change tonight!

I’m so nervous AND excited. I can barely do my psychology reading because of nerves!

I honestly don't have a clue as to where your school is, and that's fine with me; hope that you keep getting asked to return and remember, it only takes ONE bid :-) Keep your mind open, and best of luck to you!

Gusteau · #10 01-31-2011, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by AzTheta

I honestly don't have a clue as to where your school is...

Seriously? I'm disappointed in you - I knew from the first paragraph of the first post!

AZTheta · #11 01-31-2011, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Gusteau

Seriously? I'm disappointed in you - I knew from the first paragraph of the first post!

and...

(I'm in a recovery group focused on overcoming Fear of Smilies)

AOII Angel · #12 01-31-2011, 10:12 PM

I would take the "only 40 girls can pledge each group" thing with a grain of salt. That's not how recruitment works, and VERY few campuses limit quota before the number of women remaining in recruitment before preference is actually known. With RFM, the goal is to place AS MANY PNMs as possible, so just go in to the parties looking for your best fit, not worrying that you won't be in the 120 that will actually make the cut.

IndianaSigKap · #13 01-31-2011, 10:17 PM

Me either...I have no clue. If someone wants to PM me and clue me in...

Barbie's_Rush · #14 01-31-2011, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by IndianaSigKap

Me either...I have no clue. If someone wants to PM me and clue me in...

My guess is that they're thinking it's Yale. But it isn't.

33girl · #15 02-01-2011, 04:59 AM

The maximum number of bids thing is bullshit unless your school employs some sort of psycho cap. If 800 girls make it through to pref, quota is 800 divided by 3. Period.

Oh, and I don't know what school this is either.