So I am considering pledging this fall but I am really nervous, I am not going to lie. I try and be nice to everyone but for some reason a lot of people dislike me without me even saying a word and I don't know why. I am not to unattractive and I think it is because I don't really know how to assert myself and be ultra friendly because I am so used to being judged and shunned. Any advice on what I can do to change that before rush week?
And also, what kind of things should I wear to rush? Our rush is set up so we are spending 15 to 45 minutes with one Sorority before going to the next and I have no idea what to wear, any one have advice for something for Chapter Introduction night?
So I am considering pledging this fall but I am really nervous, I am not going to lie. I try and be nice to everyone but for some reason a lot of people dislike me without me even saying a word and I don't know why. I am not to unattractive and I think it is because I don't really know how to assert myself and be ultra friendly because I am so used to being judged and shunned. Any advice on what I can do to change that before rush week? And also, what kind of things should I wear to rush? Our rush is set up so we are spending 15 to 45 minutes with one Sorority before going to the next and I have no idea what to wear, any one have advice for something for Chapter Introduction night?
Does your school's Panhellenic Council have a website?
Okay and I just looked at the Schedule for rush week, what kind of dress would be used for "partially structured recruitment?"
Every school has different dress requirements (some schools have dressier recruitments too). Panhellenic would know better than we would. Most schools have some sort of recruitment guidebook or website with "what to wear" suggestions. You could call and ask them to direct you to that.
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We don't know your school, so we don't know the environment, weather, schedule, etc. The Office of Greek Life, and women from your school, are the BEST places to get school-specific info.
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