Let's Be Honest Here.....

[ellebud]

I have read, and in my retro story mentioned, that my house wasn't (in my case) a top tier house. In fact, because we were the "Jewish" house we were the bottom house because most of the rushees who weren't Jewish wouldn't, at that time, consider a Jewish house. So, out of 800 pnms...probably 750 considered an invitation to our house the kiss of death (or boredom/rejection) from the "good houses."

When I read posts from girls who drop out of rush because the remaining houses aren't "top tier" I keep wanting to scream, "Who are the women in the houses that aren't "good enough" for you? Will these women be there for you in good times and bad? Are you looking beyond the superficial? Do you honestly think that your social life will be better/doomed/nonexistant if you join House F rather than House A+?

I am wondering if some of us who joined a non top tier house would be willing to come foward and relate their experience with their sisters and why keeping options is a good thing?