Advice needed

[PhiMuLady150]

So I attended a wedding this month for a sister of mine and had a great time! Anyway I just got an e-mail from the bride informing that one of the groomsmen was quite smitten with me and wants my e-mail and phone to keep in touch with him. She wanted to check with me first before handing out my info which I appreciated. Anyhow I really have no interest in this guy, he's not my type, he was fun to meet and enjoy the wedding with along with other people but I didn't feel a connection at all. So I'm not sure quite what to do because there are chances that he will be back to visit the groom and I may see him again. I really don't want him to have my info but if I say that to the bride, it may be weird. We didn't even talk that much actually so I just find it weird...any advice would be appreciated.

Thank you!

[AlphaFrog]

I would just tell her that you don't feel comfortable with her giving your info out. Or, let her give him your email, but not your phone. It's much easier to ignore emails then it is phone calls. Although I wouldn't completely ignore the emails, but maybe send short, not-so-prompt responses.

[33girl]

If you're really not interested, don't give him ANYTHING. If he's this into you and you barely talked, giving him your email is going to be like saying to him (in his mind) "let's get married and have 80 babies." Just tell her you're not interested and you don't want to lead him on. If she's offended, then she's not being a good friend to him OR you.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally posted by 33girl
If you're really not interested, don't give him ANYTHING. If he's this into you and you barely talked, giving him your email is going to be like saying to him (in his mind) "let's get married and have 80 babies." Just tell her you're not interested and you don't want to lead him on. If she's offended, then she's not being a good friend to him OR you.

You're probably right, I was thinking with my head when I answered, not with a guy's winkie.