This is my first post on here! I actually accidentally found this place and decided to join because I am torn over what I want to do about my current situation. Please no judging! I appreciate any advice or input.
I apologize if this all sounds confusing...I pledged a local sorority (meaning...we are not national - im not sure if everyone knows that!) my freshman year of college, which was 4 years ago. I didn't take the time to really get to know the girls in the sorority and just kind of fell into it...needless to say I never felt that I got the full experience I wanted from it. My big hardly spoke to me during pledging, etc, and as of this past year I had some personal issues where I actually needed to transfer schools. I am now at a school where there is no chapter of my sorority. I hardly have any friends and I will be in school for another 2 years - I switched my major and I although I am currently a fourth year student I only have a first semester junior standing) Anyway...things officially between my sorority and I are fine and they always have been...but I never really felt that I belonged. I want to meet new people at my new school and I also kind of want to "desisterize" or "resign" from my old sorority (I do not even think they would care all that much) and possibly rush at my new school to hopefully find a sorority I feel I fit well with. I also would be a 22 y/o pledge. I transferred to start over and I feel that by still belonging to my sorority at my old school, I am still kind of held back.
I don't want to go into all details of my situation as to why I transferred but I just wanted to know if this seemed crazy or stupid for wanting to do that. I'd appreciate any messages, thank you!
Transferring schools/desisterizing...please help.
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