counseling

[alphaxihoney]

I wasn't sure what forum this belonged in so since "chit chat" is for the random things I figured it fit best here...

I regularly read this forum and I know some of my sisters do and would recognize my screen name so I made up one so they are not able to know who it is.

Lately I have had some serious crap going on in my life and I am treating my sisters horribly along with other friends and my way of dealing with what is going on is NOT right so I am seriously considering going into counseling. I realized that I cannot be expected to deal with what is going on on my own and that I do need help. I am just wondering if any of you are in the same boat I am or have ever been in counseling (you don't have to say why) and if you told any of your sisters and if so what did they think and if you chose not to then why did you choose to not tell them? This seems to be the only thing for me to do...I can't go and talk to someone I know...for some reason it would be easier to talk to someone that does not know me then to go to a sister and say "hey, I need to talk to you" Have any of you actually suspended yourself from your sorority/fraternity because of personal things going on in your life? That is my last resort right now. What would you do...would you go into counseling and tell the sisters, go into counseling and not say anything or is there another plan of action you would take?

I need help in figuring this out :-/ If you don't feel comfortable answering this on the board then feel free to PM me!

-"Sally"