Question. I don't want to be disrespectful or ask things that I shouldn't, but here goes.
Last year, my fiance and I agreed to pursue our interests in joining greek life. He, Omega Psi Phi and for me, Delta Sigma Theta. We are in our late 20s and sought membership in grad chapters. Well, I had the opportunity to apply first and didn't make it. Six months later, he was made and is now a Que. I have since redirected my focus to another grad chapter of DST and am making decent progress getting to know the ladies.
Now, my neophyte Que fiance, is all up in my kool aid, telling me what and what not to do, but from the context of trying to make me stay home and not attend DST events. Further, when he goes places with me, he is forever wearing his pin and last night wore a skully with his letters to an event where I was trying to meet Deltas. I was embarassed because I didn't want Deltas to know that my man is a Que--atleast NOT YET.
I am afraid that members will think I only want to be a Delta because I am engaged to a Que and that my heart is focused on Coleman Love and not being the best Delta that I can be.
Frankly, just to vent, and this is a vent, I am pissed that I missed my first opportunity to become a member because of issues with how my community service letters were viewed. This man hasn't done anything in the community until now. But he is a Que, and I am at square one with this neophyte all up in my business, trying to 'help' and compromise me in public with skullys and all.
Am I losing my mind out of spiteful competition or are my concerns valid?
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