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Old 04-11-2003, 01:22 AM
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To kiss or not to kiss?

In conventional dating, not after party shacking or random bar hook-ups, the boy takes the girl someplace and its called . . .

Drum Roll please: A First Date. *The crowd gasps*

What myself and other guys want to know is . . . what are the kissing rules for first date experiences?

Like should you try and initiate heavy petting before the entree?

Should you definitely try to kiss her before she closes the door to her home?

Should the kiss be passionate?

What are the girls thinking all night before the first date?

What are the physiological clues guys should be looking for?

And Finally: What are your unusual First Date First kiss stories?

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Old 04-11-2003, 01:36 AM
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Kissing on the first date, for me, is generally limited to the cheek. You would really have to knock my socks off to get anything more. And if you want heavy petting before the entree, spend some quality time with Rover before we meet up.

Unusual first date stories, I have none because I try to keep things respectable.
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Old 04-11-2003, 02:33 AM
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I like kissing on the first date...if the click is there. Sometimes it's hard to tell though, so a nice kiss on the cheek is a good test, not too invasive and you can check out the other person's reaction.
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Old 04-11-2003, 02:51 AM
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Is that all you want just a kiss?
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Old 04-11-2003, 02:53 AM
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Quote:
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Is that all you want just a kiss?

Skipping straight to sex won't get you many complaints from men lol.
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Old 04-11-2003, 02:56 AM
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well, hell cheap sex, how can I refuse?
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Old 04-11-2003, 02:56 AM
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You're wearing a denim jacket. James.
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Old 04-11-2003, 05:46 AM
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I think a kiss on the first date is cute. It has to be soft and sensual though- NO heavy petting
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Old 04-11-2003, 05:58 AM
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Ive always had bad luck in a relationship if I kiss on the first date...
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Old 04-11-2003, 01:16 PM
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Always kissed on the first date.

First kiss story is way to long to tell.
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Old 04-11-2003, 02:01 PM
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If a girl doesn't sleep with me on the first date, I won't go out with her again. If she does sleep with me on the first date I definitely wont go out with her again.
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Old 04-11-2003, 02:19 PM
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Usually, it's best to kiss BEFORE the first date.
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Old 04-11-2003, 02:21 PM
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Old 04-11-2003, 03:24 PM
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Don't kiss on the first date. Save it for the second date. She will wonder what's going on. She'll feel confused and intrigued. You will leave an impression like no other man before you.
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Old 04-11-2003, 03:27 PM
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I kiss on the first date if I like him and had a good time . . . if I didn't then I won't.

Nothing beyond kissing though.
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