what does it take

[besidemyself]

My daughter is going through rush this week at a large Texas public university. She had a great experience the first part of the week and after the second round was cut from some of her favorite (who she felt she fit in with) chapters. She now is discouraged because she has been told that what chapters which are left have "bad reputations" on campus. She is going to finish the week with her head held high and her mind open. This is a girl who went to a very academically competitive high school in which she took advanced courses. Her GPA did not reflect the difficulty of the work completed. She also concentrated her extracurricular activities with mission work through her church. Somehow she has gotten the impression that her grades and the fact that she was only involved in church activites were a negative. If I am discouraged, can you imagine what she is feeling. We need some advice.