When Loyalty and Ignorance Clash

[Cain]

I have a situation that is sure to keep the Kappa Korner hot for a minute. I haven't posted in quite some time, but I need the opinions of not only the NUPES, but my fellow Greek counterparts.

While using different names and place, here is how the story goes. This brother who will be called "K" has always had a history of conflicts. Even before he pledged, he was known as a "a!*hole". So once he crossed, this was just amplified to another degree. "K" is involved with this female,"P". "P" is just an around the way girl, and not one to settle down with. She is mentally- unstable, and she has dealings with the basket ball team. "K" has said some pretty harsh things about this same Basketball team, for no apparent reason, because again he is an "a$%hole". Now there is beef between the frat, and the basketball team. No personal problems, just the fact that they don't like him, so we are automatically drawn in the confusion, but C'est la vie.

We throw a party where we live at, and we pack the house out. One of the Basketball team members is dancing with "P", and "K" pulls the girl away, 3 TIMES, just to be spiteful. Naturally the B-Ball player says some words to "K" and a mini-scrape breaks out. The bruhs seperate it. I say that Personal beef is just that, PERSONAL. But You won't disrespect my house, and I won't let u jump my brother. They understand, and the party continues. 30 mins later, "K" walks out of the room we had him in, and punches the first B-Ball member he sees. A brawl insues, which leaves "K", on the ground, all alone. Some of the brothers, where in a position to help, but others were not,(like myself). "K" is angry with his LB's and chapter bruhs, because he feels, like nothing was done to help him. So my question to the board is this. What do you do when a brother gets into an altercation, that by all accounts he brought on himself? It seems like a catch 22, were either way it's negative outcomes. Sorry for the long type, but the background story was required. Let me know something

[Natty Nupe]

there is a saying my dad told me once "don't take medicine for anybody". true in the fraternal context especially when you're fresh off the wood you are all gung ho, super NUPE etc. BUT... this bruh sounds like trouble plain and simple so it's best to let him take the heat he will inevitably attract to himself. in summary, if it's a one time event (e.g. one of the bruhs gets into it in a party or something, then you should help out. this "k" is an idiot and should not be encouraged in his folly.