Signs your man/woman loves you,,,

[Sexy Mocha]

He pretends to like your cat by no longer drop-kicking Fluffy down a flight of stairs when you're not looking...

When you come over to visit, he starts picking up- he shoves underwear under the bed (his and other women's), he moves the Playboy centerfold to a less frequented room, and he hides all of the dirty dishes in less conspicuous places...

He lets you see the remote. You,as a woman, will never actually get to use the remote, so consider a distant viewing of it a positive sign...

He takes one of those Cosmo quiz things without complaining...

He doesn't mind that his parents, pets,children like you better. His friends will never like you better. They undoubtedly want to sleep with you , but they will never like you.

Ladies, someone sent this to me...I think it's funny, even a bit cute but this is sooo true!

[AKAtude]

I want to add something to the list (although this does not mean he loves you, but he may like you):

He doesn't mind if you answer his telephone.

[PinkCashmere]

Soror Akatude,
If a man lets you answer his phone I think that he is definitely in love.

[AKAtude]

I didn't want to give false hope. That happened to me a few years ago, but it was not love. Now, my fiance is a different story.

[Serenity]

This one comes from personal experience:

He loves you when you are in bed with severecramps and you ask him to go to the store for tampons. His reply: "Lites, regulars, or heavies?" *sigh* I Love my man.....

[Sexy Mocha]

Serenity, Now that's love!
*sigh* I CAN'T WAIT until I find my soul mate! It must be special feeling.

[Eclipse]

Serenity, I was JUST about to post the same thing!!

O.K. I have to share a 'my man is the bomb" story that just happened last night..
I had an AWFUL day at work yesterday (actually it's been an awful month, but that's another story) and came home just depressed. My husband listened as I cried on his shoulder, fixed dinner (and my favorite kool-aid: tropical punch and lemonaid mixed ), then suggested we take a walk. We walked down to the lake in our subdivision and sat for a while and talked some more. After we walked home he *insisted* that he give me a bubble bath! sigh.....I love my pun'kin!!

[LadyAKA]

Now that was BE-U-T-FUL!
Eclipse I am waiting for the day MY MAN or any man does that for me!
Serenity, my man thinks tampons and maxi's have cooties :0)

[AKAtude]

I learned my man was ok with that when we were in Wal-Mart together one day. I asked him to hold a bag of Always and he was so cool with it. I asked him if he felt uncomfortable and he said not at all.

Sexy Mocha, it is a special feeling.

[Discogoddess]

Okay sorors and friends, why does my man have an allergy to holding my purse in public? He told me when we first got serious that he wasn't going to be a "purse carrier," but I'm like, bruh, if you want me to put your keys, pager, wallet, AND Palm Pilot in this bad boy, then you're carrying this damn purse when we're shopping!

Okay, good man story:

On my first day at my new job, my husband got up, pressed my blouse, laid out my outfit, cooked some pancakes and turkey sausage, served it to me on a lovely plate (with a napkin), prayed with me, and packed me some fruit and other snacks before sending me off into the world! My momma wasn't THAT good when I was little! Then, later that week, we bought me several work pieces, without my help, at the Elisabeth store in Water Tower. And I loved all of them (and they fit! AND they were one size smaller than what I usually wear-sista been working out and hubby noticed).

*Sigh* I think my hubby is THE MAN!

DG
Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.
SP90

[This message has been edited by Discogoddess (edited July 25, 2000).]

[Eclipse]

DisgoGoddess,

When a man does THAT for you, you can kinda forgive him for not wanting to hold your purse when you go shopping.....can't you??

[Serenity]

Ladies, our men are livin g proof that all men are not jerks. YAY!

Not to brag..... But my honey kidnapped my for my birthday. We spent a weekend at one of the beach resorts here. And, we went skinny dipping. Yeah, you know your man loves you when your butt bounces a little more than it should and he still calls you beautiful.

[onesavvydiva]

okay...brace yourselves...BITTER SINGLE WOMAN IN THE HOUSE!!!...

Sike, but anyway, I thought Sf's Discogoddess's post was so funny, I mean what is actually the problem...HELLO!!!, people know if me and you are together, then it must be MY purse...DUH!!!
(It's not like I asked him to go to the club sporting that bad-boy, with shoes to match!)

And on the issue of tampons/pads...me and my ex were in the store, and he was rushing me, so I tore my shopping list in half, and gave him part as to make the trip quicker...he looks at it, and was like well, "Why you have to give me the half with the pads on it?" I said "Negro, don't you know that makes you look real good to some females, they see you walking through the store with a big 'ole bag of maxi's and they think 'Dag, I wish I had a man like that...'," Needless to say, he finished shopping with no complaints....HE HE

[Cookee]

Greetings Ladies:

True love is so beautiful. All of your stories continue to give me hope that there are wonderful men out there. (Romantic here )
I have one to add to the list:

You know your man is in love or at least likes you, when you try out that new recipe and even YOU know it's not great, but he still tells you he likes it and that it's good.

Take Care,
Cookee

[deja]

Okay Sorors and SF's

You know your man love you when you are standing in the line at the movie theater and your water bag break---and he takes of his precious "Purple and Gold" jacket and wraps it around your waist to hinder "my" embarrasment>>>>>>> He cried when I was in labor, I mean sobbed! We have been married for more than 10 years +++ and I still love that man. Yeah!

Yes I am older!

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TO WHOM MUCH IS GIVEN....MUCH IS EXPECTED.