Are White Men Better: Interview with Serena Williams

[Gods Ivy]

Greetings All,

Below is an interview with Serena Williams, I was sent this message this morning, I really hope this is not true because she is gone.

Ms. Williams we are all interested in your new boyfriend.
There is no new boyfriend . I stopped playing with boys when I stopped dating black guys. I have a new man in my life and yes, he's white.

So you prefer to date white men instead of black guys?

Let's be real. If you are a successful black female you only have two choices....date outside of your race or date other successful black females.

Are you saying there are no successful black men to date?

Of course not but lets face it, if Oprah would date outside of her race she would be married with children now. The state of most black men is so low the only thing you can do is love them. Like a poor homeless dog. You can't expect it to protect you. You can only offer shelter and love and watch as our neighbor's pit-bull protects his home and family. I, unlike Oprah, am not forced to stay within those boundaries. I was born into a new generation of black women.

So Oprah is being forced to date Stedman?

All I can say is when you find a successful black women who is not married and does not have children it is because they refuse to accept the two choices. Some may go as far as marriage to a black guy but they realize divorce is inevitable so they do not have children. Or they have children with one and don't marry in order to preserve their wealth and good credit. Oprah is one of many who silently protests being stuck with such poor choices by refusing to marry and reproduce but you can see how much it hurts her. She's always giving away money to children's charities. I hope she makes the choice to marry a non-black soon so she can have a child of her own.

But you have decided to accept the two choices?

Yes. I grew up in California around the two extremes of wealth. If I could only get myself t o try the bisexual thing I would have been much happier in my relationships. Instead I dated black men. I loved many of them but they were just not suitable for marriage. Many of them were raised by women and had warped mentalities. So I finally had to date outside my race. When I moved to Miami, I accepted my status and dated men on my level.

What do you mean by warped mentalities?

Well, where do I begin? Many of them were raised predominantly by women and had this feminine/bisexual complex. Where they wanted to be treated like a female sometimes. For example, I would have the money & they would have the sex. I would teach them things. You know, all the things a woman likes a man to do, I would end up doing for them. Then if we would get into an argument, there would be a role reversal. All of a sudden, they would be the man wanting the respect of a king in his castle. Black men over the years have become less and less of value to black women both rich and poor. I predict in 10 years they will be obsolete. Now they serve little to no function and what little they can do, they don't want to do.

Why 10 years?

That's when going to a fertility clinic to get impregnated by a sperm donor will become as common and accessible as the flu shot. Women who want sex will do it with whoever they want (girl, guy, rich, poor, white ,black) and go to the bank (the sperm bank) when they are ready to have children. Even those who waited (like Oprah) will have fertilized eggs placed inVitro. That's the day the secret organization of women is waiting for. The day when men are 100% dis-empowered.

Are you apart of that organization?

No. They're a mostly white group. Plus that day for black men is practically here already. Black women are already raising 75% of the black population without a man. When fertility clinics become more affordable Black women will be standing in line. It will be just like plastic surgery. Everyone laughed at Michael Jackson but its becoming so popular now, that even poor blacks are getting work done...mostly breast reductions and liposuction.

So do you want men to be dis-empowered?

Heck, no! That's why I am with a white man now. I want a man to be a man and I am not going to settle for less just to stay within racial boundaries. A Black man in my position wouldn't do it so why should I. Don't get me wrong, I love black men. My father is black, I have dated black men all my life, and if I have a male child he will be part black. But my husband and I will raise him together so hopefully he will be a worthy choice for a worthy black female. Not the only choice, or "there's nothing better out there so I'll settle for this" choice. When you are successful you want the best. The best food, clothes, places to live etc. I want the best man also.

And you think the best man is a non-black man?

I think if there's a better choice for me, God would have shown me. I am in the public so I get to meet lots of people from all over the world athletes, celebs etc. I am wealthy so I am invited and have traveled to the most prestigious events all over the world. Out of all those people, places and events....I had to choose the right man for me. Like it or not (with very few exceptions) a white man is the only real choice for a successful black female.

Now ain't that a Trip!!

[teena]

Where did you get this? I wont believe she said this until i see the source. I would hope that if she is really this ignorant that she would be smart enough not to say this in an interview.

[Gods Ivy]

Originally posted by teena
Where did you get this? I wont believe she said this until i see the source. I would hope that if she is really this ignorant that she would be smart enough not to say this in an interview.

Not sure of the source, it was e-mailed to me that is why I am hoping it is not true.

[Gods Ivy]

I researched this because it really bothered me and this is what I found.

Comments: A December 7, 2004 bulletin from The Electronic Urban Report confirmed the obvious: this purported "interview" with black tennis star Serena Williams is a hoax. "Ms. Williams has conducted no such interview," the report said. Here is her quoted response:

"Words cannot express how upset I am to find out that someone has deliberately attempted to ruin my reputation and image," says Ms. Williams. "I would never, ever, under any circumstance, be so disrespectful. Whoever decided to write this garbage does not know Serena Williams. It is not my thinking nor my being. I want to find out who is behind this, and have them prosecuted within the fullest extent of the law. I am hoping that there will be more policing over the Internet, in order to find out immediately the origin of this kind of treachery. No one deserves to be humiliated and defamed this way."
The earliest copy of the hoax received here was dated December 2. No source was cited, nor was I able to locate the text in any published source.

Serena plans to take legal actionESPN.com news services


Serena Williams issued a statement Wednesday with harsh words about an interview she said she never gave that was transmitted to the public via the Internet.

"Words cannot express how upset I am to find out that someone has deliberately attempted to ruin my reputation and image," Williams' statement said. "I would never, ever, under any circumstance, be so disrespectful."

The e-mailed interview, released earlier this week, contained racist and homosexual insinuations about Williams' dating preferences and black men. It has been repeated in message boards and on radio broadcasts, according to Williams' agent.

"Whoever decided to write this garbage does not know Serena Williams," Williams stated.

Statements disparaging black men as unworthy mates and the difficulties encountered by successful black females in dating black men are among those attributed to Williams in the disputed interview.

"It is not my thinking nor my being. I want to find out who is behind this, and have them prosecuted within the fullest extent of the law. I am hoping that there will be more policing over the Internet, in order to find out immediately the origin of this kind of treachery. No one deserves to be humiliated and defamed this way."

Legal Action

[Jill1228]

Oh hayle naw!
If she is saying this isht and she believes it, then she is effed in the head


There are marriage material men (and non marriage material men) in ALL races...what the hayle is she thinking?

Note: not all women who "crossed the street" have this 'tude...I sure as heck don't!

[mccoyred]

Well, it doesn't SOUND like her. However, I am sure that there are Black women out there with that mentality who are unfortunately part of the problem.

[AKA2D '91]

Hasn't THIS been discussed? I know it was RECENTLY ('04, '05)?
If it wasn't here, it was the DST forum.

PLEASE, search before you post a new topic. I don't have time at this moment.

[Rudey]

I knew it. Black women have white fetishes.

-Rudey

[Marie]

Yeah, this sounded like complete B.S, and I really hope that she sues these people. No reliable news story would lack a legitimate source. Furthermore, even if she felt this way, clearly she would never state that in an interview. I don't know why people waste their time putting out this non-sense.

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally posted by AKA2D '91
Hasn't THIS been discussed? I know it was RECENTLY ('04, '05)?
If it wasn't here, it was the DST forum.

PLEASE, search before you post a new topic. I don't have time at this moment.

I posted it back in the day in the DST forum but when I found out it was a hoax I removed it so as not to discredit Serena.

[teena]

Originally posted by Rudey
I knew it. Black women have white fetishes.

-Rudey

YUP. That's why I luv you.

[Gods Ivy]

Originally posted by teena
YUP. That's why I luv you.

[blackbird]

This hoax interview is old old news.

She denied it several years ago on national television.

[Gods Ivy]

Originally posted by blackbird
This that hoax interview is old old news.

She denied it several years ago on national television.

I'm sure that it was I am just out with the times and just so happend to have received it in a forward on this morning. Thanks for the update. I attached information in the previous posts to clear up things about his being a hoax and that Serena is in the process of pursuing a law suit.

[SummerChild]

I read this some time ago. I heard that it's just a hoax.
SC

Originally posted by Gods Ivy
Greetings All,

Below is an interview with Serena Williams, I was sent this message this morning, I really hope this is not true because she is gone.

Ms. Williams we are all interested in your new boyfriend.
There is no new boyfriend . I stopped playing with boys when I stopped dating black guys. I have a new man in my life and yes, he's white.

So you prefer to date white men instead of black guys?

Let's be real. If you are a successful black female you only have two choices....date outside of your race or date other successful black females.

Are you saying there are no successful black men to date?

Of course not but lets face it, if Oprah would date outside of her race she would be married with children now. The state of most black men is so low the only thing you can do is love them. Like a poor homeless dog. You can't expect it to protect you. You can only offer shelter and love and watch as our neighbor's pit-bull protects his home and family. I, unlike Oprah, am not forced to stay within those boundaries. I was born into a new generation of black women.

So Oprah is being forced to date Stedman?

All I can say is when you find a successful black women who is not married and does not have children it is because they refuse to accept the two choices. Some may go as far as marriage to a black guy but they realize divorce is inevitable so they do not have children. Or they have children with one and don't marry in order to preserve their wealth and good credit. Oprah is one of many who silently protests being stuck with such poor choices by refusing to marry and reproduce but you can see how much it hurts her. She's always giving away money to children's charities. I hope she makes the choice to marry a non-black soon so she can have a child of her own.

But you have decided to accept the two choices?

Yes. I grew up in California around the two extremes of wealth. If I could only get myself t o try the bisexual thing I would have been much happier in my relationships. Instead I dated black men. I loved many of them but they were just not suitable for marriage. Many of them were raised by women and had warped mentalities. So I finally had to date outside my race. When I moved to Miami, I accepted my status and dated men on my level.

What do you mean by warped mentalities?

Well, where do I begin? Many of them were raised predominantly by women and had this feminine/bisexual complex. Where they wanted to be treated like a female sometimes. For example, I would have the money & they would have the sex. I would teach them things. You know, all the things a woman likes a man to do, I would end up doing for them. Then if we would get into an argument, there would be a role reversal. All of a sudden, they would be the man wanting the respect of a king in his castle. Black men over the years have become less and less of value to black women both rich and poor. I predict in 10 years they will be obsolete. Now they serve little to no function and what little they can do, they don't want to do.

Why 10 years?

That's when going to a fertility clinic to get impregnated by a sperm donor will become as common and accessible as the flu shot. Women who want sex will do it with whoever they want (girl, guy, rich, poor, white ,black) and go to the bank (the sperm bank) when they are ready to have children. Even those who waited (like Oprah) will have fertilized eggs placed inVitro. That's the day the secret organization of women is waiting for. The day when men are 100% dis-empowered.

Are you apart of that organization?

No. They're a mostly white group. Plus that day for black men is practically here already. Black women are already raising 75% of the black population without a man. When fertility clinics become more affordable Black women will be standing in line. It will be just like plastic surgery. Everyone laughed at Michael Jackson but its becoming so popular now, that even poor blacks are getting work done...mostly breast reductions and liposuction.

So do you want men to be dis-empowered?

Heck, no! That's why I am with a white man now. I want a man to be a man and I am not going to settle for less just to stay within racial boundaries. A Black man in my position wouldn't do it so why should I. Don't get me wrong, I love black men. My father is black, I have dated black men all my life, and if I have a male child he will be part black. But my husband and I will raise him together so hopefully he will be a worthy choice for a worthy black female. Not the only choice, or "there's nothing better out there so I'll settle for this" choice. When you are successful you want the best. The best food, clothes, places to live etc. I want the best man also.

And you think the best man is a non-black man?

I think if there's a better choice for me, God would have shown me. I am in the public so I get to meet lots of people from all over the world athletes, celebs etc. I am wealthy so I am invited and have traveled to the most prestigious events all over the world. Out of all those people, places and events....I had to choose the right man for me. Like it or not (with very few exceptions) a white man is the only real choice for a successful black female.

Now ain't that a Trip!!