What do you do

AKA2D '91 · #1 09-26-2001, 08:12 PM

when you have fallen in love?

Are there certain characteristics that you exhibit each time you have fallen in love? or whenever you have fallen in love, or thought you had fallen in love?

AKAtude · #2 09-26-2001, 09:33 PM

Aaaaahhhhh...love.

I remember daydreaming, grinning from ear to ear, being forgetful, and had a loss of appetite.

ClassyLady · #3 09-27-2001, 12:18 AM

All of the times that I thought I was in love I daydreamed about the future

"I wonder what our kids will look like"
"Mrs. (Insert current beau's name here"
"We'd be such a happy couple"

But, I never did that with my current boyfriend. That's one of the ways that knew it was real with him. He was so different from all the others. I realized that I was in love with him, and with the others, I was in love with the idea of being in love.

SweetestDiva · #4 09-27-2001, 12:48 AM

I don't think I've ever been in love, but I have been in "loke"... a not quite love, but a real big liking. Hush and let me make up my words, okay?

I think the biggest thing was that I couldn't seem to form a sentence/tell a story without "him" being involved somewhere up in there. Drove my friends CRAZY.

Ideal08 · #5 09-27-2001, 08:37 AM

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Originally posted by SweetestDiva
I think the biggest thing was that I couldn't seem to form a sentence/tell a story without "him" being involved somewhere up in there. Drove my friends CRAZY.

Me too!!!

I also start to spend more and more time with him, and less with my friends. This is a behavior that I will try not to do next time.

I think about him when I shop, like, should I get him anything.

I can't focus. I find myself daydreaming at the most inopportune times, lol.

pointNclick · #6 09-27-2001, 11:39 AM

I begin to buy him clothes and cologne.

sistarisin · #7 09-27-2001, 12:25 PM

Corny as it may sound... I think I knew it when I could let him go and wish him the best relationship EVER!!! Meaning I learned to love unselfishly. If we weren't gonna be together I would still love him and hope that he finds his soulmate.

We're still together after 2 years!!!!

LikeASista · #8 06-26-2007, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA2D '91

when you have fallen in love?

Are there certain characteristics that you exhibit each time you have fallen in love? or whenever you have fallen in love, or thought you had fallen in love?

Everything that everyone else has already mentioned. The dealbreaker, however, is when I find myself putting up with any garbage from him that I know I would NEVER take from anyone else. By that time, I know I've let my guard down TOO much. At that point is when I tell him to get the hell on!

(Go 'head, ... you can call me the Queen of ol' skool GC posts.

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Wonderful1908 · #9 06-26-2007, 10:30 PM

You know I haven't falling in love in years but I am of course in love with my husband.

You know how I know I love him? No matter what it is, where we are, or how happy or mad I am at him, I am always glad to see him walk in the room.

Its been like that since freshman year at good old SU in 95. I remember him coming back from a band trip like a month after we were dating and I just was glad to see him walk in the room.

Corny and way to cheesy for our style we are so not emotional but he would probably vomit if he saw I typed this!

Senusret I · #10 06-26-2007, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Wonderful1908

You know how I know I love him? No matter what it is, where we are, or how happy or mad I am at him, I am always glad to see him walk in the room.

To have a love like that.....

DC_Zeta1920 · #11 06-27-2007, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by AKAtude

Aaaaahhhhh...love.

I remember daydreaming, grinning from ear to ear, being forgetful, and had a loss of appetite.

That's me in a nutshell, in addition to some of the other stuff mentioned.

Now, I remember when I fell in love with my husband. The turning point was when we were still in undergrad and he was about to graduate, I needed help on a take home accounting exam so he assisted me. Mind you we were up to about 3:30AM and he had a 5 page paper (that had not been started) due at 9AM

sAKAsfaction · #12 07-05-2007, 09:22 AM

I've only been in love one time (still am in love

) but I've noticed that even when I'm really mad at him, I'm still happy to see him when he comes back from being away.

Go figure

.

Oh yea, and since falling in love, I've also noticed that I don't hate watching Sports Center as much! LOL

Maat · #13 07-05-2007, 12:36 PM

i get really REALLY in tune with the person, nurturing and attentive. definitely expressive of my feelings and trying to be encouraging to them. basically i try to 'love' them to a new level of being thmeselves if that makes sense. i can also be kinda mushy, sensitive, spoiled, and maybe a tad possessive. i love hard, but i love well.

LikeASista · #14 07-05-2007, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by DC_Zeta1920

I needed help on a take home accounting exam so he assisted me. Mind you we were up to about 3:30AM and he had a 5 page paper (that had not been started) due at 9AM

Now THAT'S what I call LOVE!!

AKA_Monet · #15 07-05-2007, 08:00 PM

I practice my Kegel exercises...