Another question about membership

[sweet angel]

I'm a sophomore now and I've taken time to do my research...I've looked at all of the sororities and came to a conclusion from meeting people and via websites...Maybe me posting in this forum will give you a hint as to which one I've chosen...Zeta is the only org. that I've seen that has that true sisterly bond with its members. I know that community service is necessary for consideration, but it's been a bad semester-my family has been through a lot this semester and so have I. I've done community service in the past, but I'm wondering if this semester will hurt my chances of gaining acceptance into this illustrious org...also, I was wondering about the informational...I have late classes and I had a test the next day so I couldn't make it to the informational. I spoke to some people that went and they told me what happened,but do I have to attend the informational to be considered for the intake process if I, because of my class, couldn't make it. I am really anxious and want to further my quest for knowledge. I hope I haven't said anything offensive...Also, what is the correct way to approach a soror about membership? I know some sorors from various activities I participated in, but didn't tell them of my intrest, yet. I guess I was kind of observing the way they acted in general and towards a non-greek...I haven't seen the way they handle "prospects" but they're always about the business and are composed so that you can see their finer womanhood shine through. This is probably getting kind of long, so I'll end it now

[Shelacious]

Hi Sweet Angel,

Soror Sweet Deliverance is correct...the most appropriate thing to do would be to introduce yourself to a member of Zeta from that chapter. Since you could not attend the informational, they have no clue you are interested, therefore you would not be in consideration for MIP at this time. There is nothing wrong with explaining to a Soror (especially the MIP coordinator or the president of the chapter) why you missed the informational, and to offer to take my Soror to lunch so that you may discuss what you missed during the informational and determine next steps.

Please email me off-line Sweet Angel--I have another comment for you.

Hope this helps,
Shela

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[Rachel0497]

sweet angel,
Both of my sorors are absolutely correct. If you truly are interested in becoming a member, seek one out on campus and respectfully let her know that you are interested. She will then let you know who to speak to next or what steps you need to take. Not attending an informational will not keep you out...but not expressing your interest can keep you from being considered. Good luck in your quest...let us know how it turns out.

Rachel0497

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[Sweet Deliverance]

One of the best ways you can handle your situation is to speak personally with members of the chapter through which you wish to join. More specifically, the Membership Coordinator will be able to answer your questions.

If, after exploring these options, you have other concerns, please feel free to e-mail me privately. Have a nice day!

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[kocandi712]

Sweet angel,

you might want to be careful about using the word "soror". I understand that only members of a particular organization use that term amongst one another. It might be safer for your chances to refer to them as members of the sorority.

Note: I am not interested in becoming a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. however, your word usage caught my attention as I was forum surfing. No disrespect intented to you or any members here, just thought I'd put my two cents in.

Hope everyone has a blessed holiday season, whether its Christmas, Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, Navidad and/or New Year's.