My advice to "nice" guys . . .for dating girls

[James]

This is some of my generic advice to nice guys or even just guys that have been out of the dating scene for a while.

I will write this in parts . ..

Part 1. Don't be afraid of the Pussy.

The problem:

Whenever you like someone there is a certain amount of tension or anxiety . . our hearts beat faster, we feel nervous.

The more we like them, or the more attractive they are, the more we tend to feel that way. This shoots us in the foot and makes it much harder to talk to girls we like.

Especially if you haven't been dating for a while, or are not used to being around really good looking girls. I see plenty of guys that could go out with much better looking women but they are actually intimidated by them. Strange eh? But true.

So step one for nice to guys is to desensitize themselves to women by talking to good looking girls in a highly sexual but controlled environment: Strip clubs.

Yes I Said strip clubs. Strip clubs are a great place for guys to go and practice some of their social/sexual skills on good looking women.

So your assignment is to start going once or twice a week to strip clubs with some friends. Bring dollars. Talk to the girls. Make sure you pick a strip club with hot girls not skanky ones.

Keep going until you can go on your own and talk to the girls without your friends anywhere in sight.

If you can get to the point where you can have a good conversation with some naked girl, or girl wearing sexy lingerie thats sitting on your lap, or better yet giving you a lap dance, you won't have any problem talking to a pretty girl in most social situations.