Anyone else have the same problem as I, I have a girlfriend that is annoying the shit out of me and it feels like I'm being smothered. I don't know what to do about it or what it's supposed to mean. The girl is planning on moving in with me in August.
Last week she stayed with me 5 days and by the 5th day I was like "get the fuck out of here!" in my mind. I didnt even want to hit it by the 5th day. And thats another thing, "hitting" it. I can't stand having sex with this girl. It's so boring and 1/2 the time I don't even get a nut....i just fake it. Its like she wants to have sex all the freaking time and 1/2 the time I don't. And then she gets mad or feels "unacceptable" when I just roll over and pass out. I see the feeling in her eyes when I talk to her. 1/2 the time I have sex with her I imagine its some other chick Ive banged that kind of looks like her or some pornstar just to bust a nut. And it's also like we're in competetion with each other as far as who looks the best. My body is looking good right now, I'm in excellent shape/on a cycle and now she's being miss insecure over there and she's about to get fake D tits in 3 weeks.....and I think it's inorder to keep up with the types of bitches that she knows will be flocking to me in about a month at the rate I'm going.
On the smothering thing, I can't stand it when we're together and she always has to be on me. If we're laying in bed, watching a movie, she has to be on me. Or she's constantly kissing me at home, in the car, at a restaraunt, at the beach, everywhere! And another thing, she's always wanting to hold hands with me. It doesnt matter where we go....when we go out of the condo and there are other chicks around-----she's holding my hand. And the whole time she's doing that I'm sitting here thinking to myself " Ok, chicks only hold hands in public when they feel insecure around other women" so, naturally, I get agitated at that. I feel like she's trying to "claim" me as hers.
I want to talk to her about all of this and see how she feels. I'm really good at communicating my feelings but often it's at the expense of other people's feelings. So, how can I talk to her about all this without making her upset? She's like really sensitive and I'm trying to be sensitive to her sensitive feelings. She's a really good GF, don't get me wrong. She does all my laundry, cleans my entire condo up, cooks for me, wants to give me a blowjob all the time, goes grocery shopping for me 1/2 the time (she does it even though I already have food for my diet I'm on) but usually it's fattening food. Buys all these little things for me like candles from yankee candle company to make my place all smelly. She even went through all my clothes (which I had an assload) and picked out the stuff i don't wear anymore and took it to a consignment shoppe and got money for it.
So, any suggestions?
Also, just so you know my mindeset, I've also been kind of talking to my ex fiance (the ZTA) on the phone/txt mssg. I got a postcard in a few weeks ago from a Norwegien chick who was thinking of me while on vacation and I think she could have seen it. Ive also kind of been talking to my swedish chick (my breeder) who wants to come stay with me for 3 months. And then I've kind of been talking to this teenie-bopper from the gym but nothing in the dating sense.
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