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[babybluegurl]

Hello ladies and how are yall doing today? I had a question, and I hope this does not disrespect anyone at all. I have been to some functions of two organizations. To see if this is something I want to do. So far I have researched and learn about both organizations. But there is a person on campus who is in one of the organization, she keeps telling me thing what goes on, and the process and others things that only members should know. I tried to tell her nicely, that I don't want to know anything about that. But she keeps telling me these things that other people are not to know. I thought about going up to another member to tell what going on in my sistuation. But If I wanted to join the organization, I don't want any of the members to think badly of me at all. So I wanted to know if you have any advice for me on what I should do. I don't want to stop coming to one of the organization function, because each day I learn something new about a member and gaining a friend and confidence in my self, and how I can help and bring something postive to another persons life. That might sound corny but its true. Basicaly I am saying I am trying to do everything the right way, and by the rules.

If I have disrespected anyone in any way by this post, I am sorry, that is not what I am trying to do at all.

[Strive]

Originally posted by babybluegurl
Hello ladies and how are yall doing today? I had a question, and I hope this does not disrespect anyone at all. I have been to some functions of two organizations. To see if this is something I want to do. So far I have researched and learn about both organizations. But there is a person on campus who is in one of the organization, she keeps telling me thing what goes on, and the process and others things that only members should know. I tried to tell her nicely, that I don't want to know anything about that. But she keeps telling me these things that other people are not to know. I thought about going up to another member to tell what going on in my sistuation. But If I wanted to join the organization, I don't want any of the members to think badly of me at all. So I wanted to know if you have any advice for me on what I should do. I don't want to stop coming to one of the organization function, because each day I learn something new about a member and gaining a friend and confidence in my self, and how I can help and bring something postive to another persons life. That might sound corny but its true. Basicaly I am saying I am trying to do everything the right way, and by the rules.

If I have disrespected anyone in any way by this post, I am sorry, that is not what I am trying to do at all.

You know the answer to your questions
As far as advice, you need to find out what is your "friend's" motive for telling you those secret. Best way to do it is to watch how she treats the initiates when they are online.

[babybluegurl]

thanks for the advice