Damage Control

[SiggieJilly403]

So...we have 13 girls ...yet we are having issues with mainly 2. How do you all go about dealing with damage control? How do you help to create harmony among your sisters or brothers? What kinds of bonding activities do you do?

Any help is appreciated...

I'm sick of the drama!

Thanks!

SiggieJilly

[clothesgirl]

I gotta say...'having problems' is kinda vague. So here is my suggestion. Pin point exactly what the problem is (behavior, attitude,etc.) and talk to them about it. Directly. Don't be vague. Don't be wishy washy. Let them know how their actions make you feel. Suggest solutions to the problem. (eg: 'you gossip a lot. please stop, it really hurts people. If you have a problem, please talk it our with that person.')
As for what not to do:
-Passive agressive behavior
-blaming
-telling them that others are talking about the problem.

Yeah. I know confrontation sucks, but man it beats gossip and backstabbing or for that matter, letting people treat others with disrespect.

PPL,
C.

[Kevin]

Try whatever you can to help resolve the situation. If that doesn't work, c-ya.

[OleMissGlitter]

Do you not have a Chapter Relations chair? I would sit these girls down and see what's going on in their lives and then take necessary measures to discipline them if they are doing anything to bring your chapter down. Remember, 2 weak links can break the entire chapter. You must always strive to keep harmony and sisterhood within your chapter.