I totally agree with you Dvus! I loved Sal's response, thats why she's my HOMIE!
It has become such a trend among women (Black women in particular) to ridicule, disrespect, belittle, and humiliate another woman in one breath, an then speak so highly of sisterhood in another breath.

It is SO important for us as a people and a gender to respect each other unconditionally. If we don't we can't expect anyone else to. I hope people can continue to respond to each other on this board and elsewhere, the way Sal did to insearch.
Respectfully,
Tamika