I need help! What to do about a friend!!!??

[Jewelz]

I am best friends with this girl and i have never given her any reasons to doubt me...or to not confide in me but lately she seems withdrawled and she wont tell me important things!! It isnt that we dont spend even time together because we spend alot of time together!! but she seems to tell my other best bud everything....that just hurts!!It upsets me and i dont know if she even realizes that it does!!All i know is that i want her to confide in me and i dont know why she wont!!does any of you have any suggestions!! i could use them right now!! that~~~Jewelz~~~

[TimelessDST]

Confiding or not confiding in someone does not always have to do with the level of trust. It may be that she is more comfortable with how your other friend listens or reacts to what she has to say. Not that she doubts your ability to keep her confidence but maybe she feels more comfortable talking about certain things with this other person. Some people only confide in people who they know will tell them what they WANT to hear and not necessarily what they NEED to hear. I would not take it so personally. The sad thing is if she is confiding in your friend and your friend is telling you what she says than how good of a friend is she?

Just my two cents.