OK, here's the situation......
I'm madly in love with my boyfriend of five years, three months, and twenty one days?
I feel that it is OK to talk to your ex-boyfriends if they understand your boundry. Well....I talked to one of my ex boyfriends (9th grade to 1/2 of 11th grade relationship) on the phone the other night. The convo started out as usual, "how are you?" "what you been up to", you know that sort of thing. As it got late, he started to slow down on the convo, you know, not saying too much. I then asked him if he would like to get off and go to bed. He then said "No, I want to get off on you in bed". Well I was shocked because of all the convos we've had since we broke up, he hasn't said anything like that in a LONG time (up until a year or so after the break up). I didn't get off of the phone with him. It was like I knew that I should have but I just didn't. Instead I let him continue to ask me this question in as many different ways as he could think of. Believe me, I said NO every time he asked, and meant it, my man is enough for me. I think that I was just so flattered that he was still interested. Because of me staying on, he kept saying things like " you know that you want to", "what you scared of", etc... So.. what would you have done?