The rant about your ex thread

[sugar and spice]

The official thread for rants about your ex (or other members of the opposite sex that you were once romantically involved with but no longer are -- or members of the same sex, if you're into that).









Go.

[GeekyPenguin]

My ex is a very nice guy who is one of my best friends in the world...when I am not single.

When I am single, war breaks out. Right now we're having World War 337, according to my mom's count.

[sugar and spice]

I think it's great when everybody EXCEPT your ex realizes what an dumbass your ex is being.

[alikat2]

I broke up with this guy about 14 months ago now. I was way physically attracted to him, but the sad truth is is that our personalities clashed big time. Really, we only got along when we were making out. I dumped him and things were pretty ugly for a while. But since the break-up he's somehow resurfaced every few months or so, and somehow, all I can ever think about is how hot we were together, and well, MAYBE it will work this time

We've been talking again through e-mail in the last few weeks, but it's just frustrated me. I suggested he give me a call if he's ever bored and wants to hang out......his response was, "I hate using the phone, it should be you calling me." DENIED. Then he brought up our break-up again and said it was weird the way I dumped him......when I said I was sorry for the way I acted all those months ago (because I was kinda harsh when I ended things) he was like, "Well, you're going to have to prove to me that you've changed."

WTF? I don't have to prove anything to anyone. I know I'm a nice person, and I've apologized and apologized......I am done bending over backwards for him.

[norcalchick]

i hate it when you break up with someone, and then once your happy and with someone else, the ex ends up wanting to get back with you again. sorry, you had your chance! (like 10 times ) i've got a better man now

[cashmoney]

I hate how your ex tells you that she was the best thing that ever happened to you. Or that you're never going to have a girlfriend that was a good as she was to you. I hate, hate, hate hate it when they say things like that. Thats usually when I come back with something along the lines of, well.....it's going to be hard for you to find someone to wear the pussy out like I did without you feeling like a dirty whore. Then I usually explain to them how no guy would seriously date a girl who was a feen from the begining because they'd think she was a dirty whore and would treat her like shit. Sometimes, though, that shit backfires on you. They start thinking that you're both fucked and suggest the two of you get back together. Thats when the fighting begins and you two start bithing about all the things each of you do to piss the other one off.

[AchtungBaby80]

You know, reading all your ex stories makes my exes look downright nice! Guess I got off lucky.

[cashmoney]

lol, Dana.... Well, my theory is, when its over...its over. I can come off as a little rude at times....but wtf are they doing calling me up telling me this bullshit when they know I have a new girlfriend? Each ex of mine that i still talk with knows when i have a GF, because I tell them. All they're trying to do when they call me is get in my head whether they know it or not, and the way I come back at them.....I fuck with their head.

[alikat2]

Originally posted by cashmoney
lol, Dana.... Well, my theory is, when its over...its over. I can come off as a little rude at times....but wtf are they doing calling me up telling me this bullshit when they know I have a new girlfriend? Each ex of mine that i still talk with knows when i have a GF, because I tell them. All they're trying to do when they call me is get in my head whether they know it or not, and the way I come back at them.....I fuck with their head.

Go for it. They want to play games, you play them right back.

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by alikat2
Go for it. They want to play games, you play them right back.

Glad you're feeling me. Thats cool coming from a chick with an Ally Mcbeal qoute in her signature.

[AchtungBaby80]

Originally posted by cashmoney
but wtf are they doing calling me up telling me this bullshit when they know I have a new girlfriend?

One of my exes did that when I was with my most recent ex. (Got that? ) I had dated this guy for, like, 2 weeks and then we quit talking because he really ticked me off one night. He resurfaces one night when I'm out on a date with my then-boyfriend, calling my cell phone and sending me text messages. He kept on even though I told him I was seeing someone else, and it REALLY pissed off the guy I was seeing, which is understandable, but I thought the whole thing was hilarious, for some reason. Especially when I got the text message that said, "Call me when ur not with that immature faggot." HAHAHAHA! Just have fun with it.

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
One of my exes did that when I was with my most recent ex. (Got that? ) I had dated this guy for, like, 2 weeks and then we quit talking because he really ticked me off one night. He resurfaces one night when I'm out on a date with my then-boyfriend, calling my cell phone and sending me text messages. He kept on even though I told him I was seeing someone else, and it REALLY pissed off the guy I was seeing, which is understandable, but I thought the whole thing was hilarious, for some reason. Especially when I got the text message that said, "Call me when ur not with that immature faggot." HAHAHAHA! Just have fun with it.

Well, everyone has those crazy exes. My problem is, by the time I'm done with a girlfriend she's been madly in love with me and has already told me she wants children with me one day. I have this problem with girls falling in love with me. I'm not trying to sound like the shit or anything...but it happens. And if any of you can relate, its haaaaaaard to shake a girl off of you thats like that. You can turn into the biggest dick in the world and she won't realize it. You can break up and in her mind....it still aint over. And what completely baffles me is...they were all normal girls for about the first 3 or 4 months until they told me they loved me. I don't know what it is, maybe I'm just too nice to them in the begining. The girl I'm dating now, I'm actually kind of worried what would happen if we were to break up.

[FAB*SpiceySpice]

I still really love my ex boyfriend, but he drives me absolutely batty sometimes. Like he goes from being way overconfident, bordering on stuck up to being completely unconfident (that's a word right?) and I just want to kick him sometimes!!! Find a happy medium, have no confidence bothers me more than ANYTHING, but being a d*ckhead isn't cool either. ARGH, boys.

[alikat2]

Originally posted by cashmoney
Glad you're feeling me. Thats cool coming from a chick with an Ally Mcbeal qoute in her signature.

Ally rules!

[AlphaGamDiva]

Originally posted by Hootie
My ex fiance's girlfriend emailed me yesterday...yeah....that was pleasant!

I don't want to get into the story cuz it's too long, but check out my live journal to know all details.

checked out your LJ, girl, and wowza.....can we say parallel lives?!?!

my ex's now ex WIFE did the same thing to me, emailed me tellin me to quit all communication.....when we hadn't communicated AT ALL in 4 months......it was ludicrous. i filled her in on the truth, she didn't listen, and now a failed marriage and a one year old later, there she is.....19 and divorced. hopefully, this chick will get her biznass together, but more than likely she won't. silly girls.

but yeah, my ex is like most exes....emotionally abusive, doesn't realize what he had until someone else has it, controlling, evil, etc.......glad he's gone, but he pops up every now and then........ugh.