Back on April 30th I when to get a new tattoo. That same day, a good friend of mine calls and says that she is coming up for the weekend. I say cool and picked her up right after I was done getting my tattoo. The tattoo is on my ankle and is on my driving foot. I didn't finish from the tattoo place until late. She came in at 12am that next morning. Well, swollen ankle and all I went out to DC to pick her up from the bus station.
She is STILL HERE!! She never left. Now, I know that she was coming up here to stay and she asked if she could stay for a month and then she will find somewhere to go. Nope, not the case. She shares a room with me. I have the biggest room in the house and the biggest bed. So, naturally she is all in my space.
At first it was cool, but I need my space. She needs to get out. I considered myself to be nice and trying to help someone out, but all I get in return is her attitude.
When her birthday came in June, we had plans for the whole weekend to go out and celebrate. She caught an attitude every night that weekend and I had to put her in her place in front of the company that she had here.
We go through period where we don't even speak to each other and will be in the same room almost all day. I mean I can't have someone come off the street that I am trying to help and they have the audacity to not talk to me like I am the problem.
I even took her to a party with me and she was scheming the whole night doing things behind my back. Once again, I put her in her place and told her not to do that shit again or her ass was mine!!!!
Any suggestions on how to gracefully tell her that she needs to find somewhere to go before I end up in jail.
Q