Stupid Question

AlphaGamDiva · #1 10-14-2004, 02:23 PM

ok, so should i go see my ex boyfriend for one night as he's coming back from being shipped out to i don't even know where. he flies into baltimore, and he wants me to be there when he gets off the plane and then just go back the next day b/c his flight home to CA is the next afternoon. i WANT to, but i dunno. the ticket is only $154.......i haven't seen him in a long azz time........but this is the air force ex who's used and abused and i doubt he's worth the $154......but i can't help but want to go.

someone talk me out of this or tell me to just do it. the whole time before he left we were talking, the whole time he's been gone we've been talking....and a lot of things SEEM to be worked out, but there's still BS. i wanna see him, but i know if i see him....esp the first night he's back..... <porn music plays softly in the background>.......and i don't wanna deal with all that right now.

arg. tell me i'm an idiot and get it over with.

valkyrie · #2 10-14-2004, 02:53 PM

Um, if you can see him realizing that most likely it's just for the sex and not have a big emotional freakout afterwards, go for it. Otherwise don't.

GeekyPenguin · #3 10-14-2004, 02:55 PM

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Originally posted by valkyrie
Um, if you can see him realizing that most likely it's just for the sex and not have a big emotional freakout afterwards, go for it. Otherwise don't.

Wise and cougarly advice.

AlphaGamDiva · #4 10-14-2004, 02:58 PM

heaven forbid i take "cougarly" advice.

GeekyPenguin · #5 10-14-2004, 03:02 PM

I'm like the queen of hooking up with exes. It needs to be clear what the boundaries are.

And there are worse things to be than Cougarly.

#6 10-14-2004, 03:03 PM

Don't do it!

WCUgirl · #7 10-14-2004, 03:03 PM

I say go for it, but he should be the one paying for the booty call, not you.

Or at least go halfsies.

Peaches-n-Cream · #8 10-14-2004, 03:07 PM

Just say no and walk away!

wrigley · #9 10-14-2004, 03:12 PM

$154- is a lot of money to spend on a booty call of a guy that you said treated you like crap, unless I misread your post.

WCUgirl · #10 10-14-2004, 03:17 PM

Let's give this a little more thought.

Are you going to get wined and dined at a nice restaurant or is it going to be a chincy chain type place? Is it going to be a good booty call or a so-so booty call? Is he going to want to cuddle afterwards, or will he let you roll over and get your sleep? Is he gonna' want it again first thing in the morning?

I firmly believe he should be offering to pay for part, if not all, of your ticket.

emleepc · #11 10-14-2004, 03:52 PM

Just say no!
Save your money, and spend it on something else, or yourself for that matter!

#12 10-14-2004, 04:00 PM

Mon, listen to me, I'm your sister.

Even if he's willing to pay $154, you shouldn't go because he treated you like shit.

Don't pay $154 to be his piece of ass.

If you're feenin' the ass, I'm sure you could get some free ones at home.

You're better than that and definitely worth more than $154.

KSig RC · #13 10-14-2004, 05:02 PM

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Originally posted by GeekyPenguin
I'm like the queen of hooking up with exes. It needs to be clear what the boundaries are.

And there are worse things to be than Cougarly.

Necrophile. (wow, sorry)

also AlphaGamDivia - you're right, this is a stupid question, that can't be denied. re-fing-read what you posted, boss - just a bad deal.

GeekyPenguin · #14 10-14-2004, 05:05 PM

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Originally posted by KSig RC
Necrophile. (wow, sorry)

also AlphaGamDivia - you're right, this is a stupid question, that can't be denied. re-fing-read what you posted, boss - just a bad deal.

Oh man, that was definitely good.

And yet very wrong. Now have you seen my shovel?

KSig RC · #15 10-14-2004, 05:14 PM

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Originally posted by GeekyPenguin
Oh man, that was definitely good.

And yet very wrong. Now have you seen my shovel?

at least in this case, the boundaries are clearly defined by walnut with a nice finish