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Old 10-20-2004, 10:55 AM
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7:30 calls are never good....

My two closest friends, lets call them Gap and Bebe, got into a fist fight last night. Gap called me at 7:30 this morning all upset about it.

Apparently Bebe, who gets completely out of control when she drinks, pushed Gap and then kicked her in the face. Gap proceeded to beat the shit out of Bebe. They were at some guys house with Gap's sister.

After Gap beat the hell out of Bebe her sister and the guy both started babying Bebe and completely ignored Gap. So she called me.

Now I feel like I'm going to have to pick a side. Actually I know that in a few hours Bebe will call me and demand that I side with her. However, I think it's awesome that Bebe got her ass beat. She acts like a total bitch and is crazy when she drinks which is all the time. Something like this was bound to happen because Bebe is always picking fights with people and shes not exactly a fighter.

Also, I think Bebe needs to stop drinking if shes going to act like that. She is also a slut when she drinks. And I mean a total slut.

So now I dont know what I should do. I really want to stay neutral, but I kind of agree with Gap. What the hell should I do?



(These are not DG sisters. My DG sisters dont act like this.)
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Old 10-20-2004, 11:23 AM
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I think I'd look for some new friends. People are usually known by the company they keep, and I don't see you as a this type of person.
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Old 10-20-2004, 11:25 AM
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Tell them both to leave you out of it, you don't need the drama right now.
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Old 10-20-2004, 11:26 AM
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hahaha. That's hilarious.

Why can't you just stay out of it? This doesn't really sound like a "teaching moment" for the one who got her tail beat.
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Old 10-20-2004, 11:26 AM
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I tend to like Bebe more than GAP. GAP is too preppy for me so this could be a problem.

Ok, all jokes aside, I'll go with what cash said. Just tell them to leave you out of it because they're both your friends.

I don't understand why people don't stop themselves from getting into physical altercations. Maybe it's me but I think to myself, "Hmmm...I really don't feel like going to jail right now so it's not worth it to me to hit the beeyotch....".
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Old 10-20-2004, 01:01 PM
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Stay the heeeeelll outta it. Even if you do agree with Gap, bebe might decide to beat the crap out of you later for not taking her side.

I don't see why the heck bebe stayed after she whupped on some girl. I wouldn't have been in the mood to stick around. They were probably babying her because she got her ass beat!
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Old 10-20-2004, 01:48 PM
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Stay out of it and be more particular on who you're friends with.

If you're calling her a slut and a bitch, etc. obviously she's not a good friend of yours. If she was, you wouldn't say that.
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Old 10-20-2004, 03:27 PM
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hahahaha... that's funny.

If you want to stay neutral, when Bebe calls you, say, "Hey, that's between you and Gap. I don't want to get in the middle of it." And if she has a problem with it, tough sh*t.

If you don't really care about being neutral say, "Well, maybe if you were so drunk and done stupid sh*t, you wouldn't have gotten your assed kicked. You're lucky it was a friend and not a group of girls at a bar or on the street. That should teach your ass a lesson."
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Old 10-20-2004, 03:30 PM
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CTFU

Those are some ghetto ass friends.
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Old 10-20-2004, 05:03 PM
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if my friends called me at 7:30 in the morning i'd be like hey, don't call me at 7:30 in the morning. And if you do it again, I'm gonna kick you in the nuts.
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Old 10-20-2004, 05:23 PM
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CTFU

Those are some ghetto ass friends.
LOL my thoughts exactly. I can not imagine any of my friends ever getting into physical fights, we're all too wimpy.

But seriously, don't take sides. If you weren't there, then it's not your business. I know how hard it can be to stay impartial but I really think that's the best option in this situation. Good luck.
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Old 10-20-2004, 05:26 PM
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if you take side, you might get YOUR ass beat, lol
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Old 10-20-2004, 05:32 PM
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Stay out of it and be more particular on who you're friends with.

If you're calling her a slut and a bitch, etc. obviously she's not a good friend of yours. If she was, you wouldn't say that.
I was just going to say that.

I don't think I could be friends with anyone who called me a total slut or bitch (regardless of the fact if it's indeed true IRL). I'd like to have friends who will appreciate me despite being a hoebag. Self righteous people need to hang out with their own kind.

But then again I don't think I could trust any friend who beats the shit outta people.
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Old 10-20-2004, 08:05 PM
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I'm staying out of it. Bebe called me and never even brought it up so whatev.

Bebe acts like a slut and bitch when she drinks. When shes sober, she isn't slutty, but she still acts bitchy to ME. Mostly because I put up with it. I think I don't want to be Bebe's friend anymore but shes been my friend since 2nd grade and I hate seeing her get this out of control.

I can't believe my friends got into a physical fight either. That's why I posted this cuz I didn't know what to think about it. They'll make up before the Keith Urban concert I'm sure.

I do need new friends. I need to hang out with my nice, sane sisters more often.
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Old 10-20-2004, 08:27 PM
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Tell them to take it to Jerry Springer and you'll watch at home.
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