The Game skillz of White men...

AKA_Monet · #1 05-13-2001, 02:38 AM

Gentlemen... What's up with y'alls skillz with the ladies? I just visited a club that "y'all" go to, and all I see is men drinking beer?

Personally, I have no issue with that. But my issue is, when I go to the club where all the bruhs at, I see way too many scantily clad women--some with silicon parts--jockin' upon a brotha... And the brotha is getting major digits... WTF is that all about? I just wanna know...

Ain't you got no game???

What are your pimp skillz?

Okay, okay... In your language:

How do you get a woman calling, paging and crying to you when she thinks you are cheating? Or maybe you are not cheating--but your woman does? Or it is not about having a girl calling you all the time and begging for your dcki--it is more about--what?

Just asking...

Because some of the ladies out there are saying you all ain't got no kinna game...

Just trying to dispel myths...

kdgirlie · #2 05-13-2001, 01:16 PM

girl please tell me you are joking.
As women I think we should all respect ourselves a little bit more. Nothing is more troubling than going to a club and seeing a hoe monkey girl. It is about time that women stop selling their bodies and instead show off their minds. I have no respect for women that do get all up in a mans face with pieces hanging out. It is like saying please have sex with me and then cheat on me. Just an observation
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Steeltrap · #3 05-13-2001, 01:51 PM

To kdgirlie: Point well taken, but could you please refrain from using "hoe monkey?" You could have used more discreet language.

DGPhoney · #4 05-13-2001, 02:22 PM

yes I have to agree with Steeltrap next time KD, try using another phrase, second off, I don't believe AKA_monte is saying that she does that at the club, she says she "SEES" and who doesn't see that, when I go the club, I always see those kinda chicks doing they thang and hey if it works for them more power to them.
As for the true question at hand, I think the gamestyle is just different, and the approach is different, and I don't think it's different cause of race , I think it's just the guys personal style. Some kick major game, and some are on the sneak attack tip, but it's all different,least thats how I see. As a female I know we all take major pride in our brains and our smarts, cause I know I do, but when I go to a club, I am not thinking about my brain , it's all about fun, dancing, hanging with my sisters/friends, and dancing with a too smooth guy.
So the then the GAME begins, be cool and shake it fast

mgdzkm433 · #5 05-14-2001, 08:56 AM

I'm a girl, if you didn't know, but I want to give MY observations.

I went to a small school, about 3600 students. There was ONE bar in the town. I bartended there for a while (which was a blast, but that's beside the point) and got to watch all the 'action' from nutral ground.

From my observations, I have to agree with DGPhoney. I think it's a personality thing and that means different approches. Certain men know what works best for them.

I've been out dancing on the dance floor with my girlfriends or sisters and noticed a guy across the room standing at the bar just watching. Sometimes, depending on the man, they pull it off really well and that would be the best approch for him because I'll notice him and be drawn to his gaze--later we'd bump into each other 'accidently' and exchange conversation/numbers. On the other hand, I've been on the dance floor with a sexy guy and he dances really well and that is a total turn on.

I think perhaps your question stems from the fact that you'll probably see more white men standing by the bar drinking because they (sorry for the stereotype here, but it IS an observation of mine) just don't dance very well. Some white men are great dancers, but I'd have to say that I've seen very few GREAT ones. It doesn't mean they 'don't have game', I'd just say it limits their approch. (my Fiance is included in the 'white men can't dance' theory--I probably turned 40 shades of red when he tried to 'break it down' at his 10 year reunion--I think I was traumatized by that experience).

KABillyMac · #6 05-14-2001, 08:57 AM

Ok gotta step up for KD here. Hoemonkey was fine, I liked it. Cant believe yall are gonna bash her for hoemonkey and not say anything to monet. That post lacked any single thread of class.

I have a problem with this. I dont speak slang but I am going to try to wing it here. Are you saying that White men dont have the "game" that other races do? And if that is what you are saying, then we need to know what the predominant race of people in the club is. If it is predominantly one race, and then there are a handful of another race there, then yes, I would say that the odds are greatly stacked against the minority in the club.

If it is game that you seek, then I cordially invite you to my hometown, where you will be greeted by 70 "game" spitting "homies" of my own, who will score the "digits".

Eclipse · #7 05-14-2001, 10:18 AM

O.K. AKA_Monet, You know you are my Spelman sister and all that, but for real, girlfriend, what was the purpose of that post???? You have been around GC enough to know that these kinds of threads usually invoke some type of divisive racially motivated retoric. I read the post 3 times and I am amazed that folks could make heads or tails of it enough to try to answer!

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kdgirlie · #8 05-14-2001, 10:35 AM

sorry guys if my word offended you. But I really do find behavor of some women very degrading and it definately sets our sex back. As for certain races having "game" over others, that is lacking in arguement. If you watch movies then these sterotypes are very real to you. But in the real world guys of all races are players, and some lack serious game. It is a personality thing

AXO Alum · #9 05-14-2001, 01:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Eclipse:
O.K. AKA_Monet, You know you are my Spelman sister and all that, but for real, girlfriend, what was the purpose of that post???? You have been around GC enough to know that these kinds of threads usually invoke some time of devise racially motivated retoric. I read the post 3 times and I am amazed that folks could make heads or tails of it enough to try to answer!

Agreed 100%, Eclipse!

SH80 · #10 05-14-2001, 01:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AKA_Monet:
Gentlemen... What's up with y'alls skillz with the ladies? I just visited a club that "you guys" go to and all I see is men beer drinking? I have no issue with that. But my issue is, when I go to the club with all the brotha's, I see way too many scantily clad women--some with silicon parts--jockin' up a brotha... And the brotha is getting major digits... WTF is that all about? I just wanna know... Ain't you got no game...

What are your pimp skillz?

Okay, okay... In your language. How do you get a woman calling you, paging you all the time and cryin' when you start trying to cheat? Or you do not cheat--but your woman does? Or it's not about havin' a girl callin' you and wanting your d---, but it's about... What? Just askin'... 'Cuz some of the ladies out there are sayin' y'all ain't got no game...

Just trying to dispel myths...

Sheeet, som of dom white boyz ha mo game dan dome blike boyz, it juz dependz on da boy!!!

mgdzkm433 · #11 05-14-2001, 02:07 PM

I answered the question because:

1. AKA_Monet has been here for quite a while, I doubt seriously that she wanted to start anything like WWIII.

2. I took the question more as an observation in the different approches that White men have vs other races, in the dating 'game'. I really didn't feel there were any ill intentions.

kdgirlie · #12 05-14-2001, 04:29 PM

ok, I definately see your point. I probably did not use the best phrasing, I was just trying to go with the slang thing. Just so you know I have been hanging out with High Schoolers ( no offense) alot because my blood little sister moved in with me to finish her senoir year. anywho I am sure Monet didn't mean to start anything, everyone should to quote my grandmother " get your panty's out of a wad"

Eclipse · #13 05-14-2001, 07:10 PM

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Originally posted by mgdzkm433:
I answered the question because:

1. AKA_Monet has been here for quite a while, I doubt seriously that she wanted to start anything like WWIII.

2. I took the question more as an observation in the different approches that White men have vs other races, in the dating 'game'. I really didn't feel there were any ill intentions.

I agree Mikki, I don't think AKA_Monet was trying to start a race war on here, but I do think it is important to think about the implications of your actions before hand. What if, for instance, a non-regular, looking to start something had come on here saying something like "Black men have better 'game' because they have gotten a lot of practice from multiple baby-mamas"? How do you think folks would have reacted. I just personally think the question, if legitamately looking for insite, could have been phrased a bit better. Maybe it's just me. It's certainly not the first time I haven't understood one of AKA_Monet's posts, and it probably won't be the last. LOL

AKA2D '91 · #14 05-14-2001, 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by mgdzkm433:
I answered the question because:

1. AKA_Monet has been here for quite a while, I doubt seriously that she wanted to start anything like WWIII.

2. I took the question more as an observation in the different approches that White men have vs other races, in the dating 'game'. I really didn't feel there were any ill intentions.

I agree!

I was kind of interested in what the guys of other races do/did when it comes to their "game". Is "the game" universal, or is it not?

What's wrong with answering the question?

I think more WOMEN have answered than MEN!

lifesaver · #15 05-14-2001, 09:03 PM

I dont know if the "game" is universal, but I think playahs are universal. As stevie sang so eloquently about...

"Thunder only happens when it's raning,"
"Players only love you when they're playing."