Kiss and tell?

songstress21 · #1 05-14-2001, 11:19 AM

By now I'm sure most of you have heard that lie/joke Shaq told about having sex with Aaliyah, Cindy Crawford and Venus Williams. I know that Venus was really pissed off even though most people knew it wasn't true. Why does it seem like guys like to kiss and tell? I had an incident like this happen when I was a freshmen in college. There was this guy I was seeing and he spread rumors about "stuff" we did which wasn't true. Even if they were true and we did do stuff I feel it was nobody's business. He was older than me and should have known better. This has made me very cautious of who I mess around with and who I tell my business to. I think only immature guys brag about what they do in the bedroom. What does everyone else think?

CJUS · #2 05-29-2001, 11:49 AM

I have also been in a predicament like this. But, it resulted into domestic violence. This guy I was dating he was about four years younger than me. Him and I was tight. Then one day things started going down hill for us, and it was so bad that his friend was able to convince him that he slept with me. Now I told my guy friend that it was a lie. Obviously, because of his infidelity he didn't beleve and he beat me like he was fighting a guy. I knew that he wasn't the one for me so I moved on. But ladies these men will lie and manipulate you. don't be fooled. If he is boyish enough to put his hands on you, I don't care if it is a push. Get out of there. A push can come to a shove, a shove can come to a slap, aslap cn come to a punch, a punch can come to a knive or a gun, then you know what happens next. YOUR DEAD!!!..

MSLADYAKA · #3 06-01-2001, 10:00 AM

I've never been in a situation like that before. So I can only imagine what that must feel like. I think that if a guy has to talk about what he has done intimately with someone he's insecure with himself. He's boosting his own ego at anothers expense. What a high price to pay.

Onenine08 · #4 06-02-2001, 12:50 AM

A couple of guys have lied about "being" with me and a couple have kissed and told the truth. How did I handle each situation??? Just smiled and said "nah thats not true." And guess what -- it always worked. I never went-off on anybody or made a big fuss over it. If it was a lie, there was no point in it, and when it was the truth I'd calmly deny it, play it cool and let it blow on over anyway.