Can you get out of being in a wedding ?

[GreekLetterGirl]

Ok-

this is a strange question but, a sister of mine is getting married in August. She has asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. Due to some recent events, unforcene debit, and just general bitchiness on her part the honor of being in this wedding has worn off. I know that it is her special day, and I am very honored to that she asked to me to be in her wedding, I am just not really feeling it. It seems that now that she's engaged, she can't waste her time talking about anything but the wedding or her life. Comments like are being made to me about how " i am wasting my life being friends with my ex boyfriend and not out actively dating", and " I have no idea what debt is like because I am not paying for a wedding or a new house" are being tossed around. I understand that being a bride is very stressfull, and that there is a lot that needs to be done. But I don't think that it is an excuse to turn into a Bridezilla. Plus the idea of being the only single bridesmaid is not so fun. So I am not sure what to do.

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Any suggestions ?

[ASUADPi]

sweetie, I pm'd you

Brianna

[ADPiViolets]

Hi,
A friend of mine recently got married in October. The situation was somewhat similar. She had a friend whom she asked to be in a wedding, and after a while, she came to realize she didn't want her standing up anymore (she wanted me instead! lucky me!)
Anyway...
Luckily, her friend came to her first about it. She told her that she was having financial issues and could not afford to be in the wedding.
Basically, if I were you, I would tell your friend something like this. If it gets any further, then just very carefully word somethinig to the effect that you feel as though you are growing apart. I hope this helps someway. Good luck, and let us know what happens!

[WLFEO]

Any new develpments? Did you talk to your friend????