Great first date

absolutuscchick · #1 01-14-2004, 02:43 PM

I'm way excited...I just had such a fun first date last night. I went over to his house and watched "Uptown Girls" with him (yes hes a guy and straight....but he loves chick flicks). Anyhow, so we talked and talked and talked and could of talked all night long...but he had to get up at five so a little before three I went home. He walked me to my car, hugged me, (no kiss

) and he told me hes going to call me. Then I got home to a cute im from him telling me that he had a good time talking with me and telling me that I'm such a cutie...anyhow, I'm just really happy because I really like him and I love that hes taking things slow.

Ok, well since its been so long since I've any good luck with guys, I keep doubting it, thinking that I must be mistaken (aren't all arizona guys supposed to in pursuit of ass and thats it??!!) Well anyways, I just wanted to get your guys pov on the night, to make sure that I'm reading it right and not being happy for no reason!

James · #2 01-14-2004, 11:39 PM

You shouldn't be reading anything into anything yet lol . . there is nothing to analyze . . .

When he calls you or you call him for the next date take it from there.

honeychile · #3 01-15-2004, 12:28 AM

Long before I met mr. honeychile, I had a first date with a nice guy, one that will forever remain the *best* first date I ever had!

We were to go to dinner & a movie, so I was dressed appropriately - nice dress, heels, etc. He called from his cell to tell me that he had forgotten that it was his godson's birthday, and that he had been invited to a birthday dinner, but he gave me the option of what to do. I was game to go to the kid's party.

I found out that this guy was well respected by his family & godson, that he played well with kids, he had a great sense of humor, and generally, that he was a wonderful guy! What could have been a major flop of a date turned out to be wonderful, and changed my mind on the "impress me" first date forever!

Which is a good thing, seeing as how I met mr. honeychile soon afterwards! LOL

absolutuscchick · #4 01-15-2004, 03:07 AM

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Originally posted by James
You shouldn't be reading anything into anything yet lol . . there is nothing to analyze . . .

When he calls you or you call him for the next date take it from there.

I'm a girl...I analyze everything...

And an update, we talked on the phone today, and he invited me to go hottubbing with me, but I couldn't because I had to clean (and I need to buy a new, cute swimsuit). Anywho, I'm trying to stop with my overanalysis because it gets annoying!!

James · #5 01-15-2004, 03:10 AM

Analyze as much as you want. Just take action when appropriate and never let him realize how much you are analyzing.

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Originally posted by absolutuscchick
I'm a girl...I analyze everything...

And an update, we talked on the phone today, and he invited me to go hottubbing with me, but I couldn't because I had to clean (and I need to buy a new, cute swimsuit). Anywho, I'm trying to stop with my overanalysis because it gets annoying!!

The_Nash · #6 01-17-2004, 05:13 AM

congrats on the good first date

sigtau305 · #7 01-18-2004, 05:52 PM

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Originally posted by The_Nash
congrats on the good first date

co-sign

absolutuscchick · #8 01-20-2004, 04:40 AM

So I got back from his apartment again. He is so amazing. I haven't felt this free around anyone since my first boyfriend in high school, like five years ago. I can say everything on my mind and be completely myself. And after flirting forever, we finally kissed tonight. Unluckily he has class at 740 tomorrow so I couldnt spend the night and cuddle with him....unless I wanted to get up at 6am so he can cook breakfast and go for his run. But seriously, I am so smitten its ridiculous!!!!