Have you checked out the ones for Alpha Phi?
http://www.geocities.com/sororitybuddyicons/ap.html
Here are all the others
http://www.geocities.com/sororitybuddyicons/index.html
Here are the "generic" ones...or the I love my big sis, etc
http://www.geocities.com/sororitybud...s/generic.html
Here is how to download them.
1. Find the one you want
2. RIGHT CLICK ON IT and scroll down to
Save Picture As (I usually save it on the desktop to make it easier to find).
3. On your AOL IM, go to
My AOL IM Menu . Go to Edit Options. Another menu will pop up. Go to
Preferences
4. About 1/3 of the way down you will see something saying
Buddy Icons. Click on that. A new menu will pop up.
5. You will see toward the middle, Icon to send to buddies. There is a button saying
BROWSE PC. Click on that. Go to your desktop and click on the buddy icon you saved and hit SELECT.
There! Your icon is saved and your buddy will see your new icon. Hope this helps!