Being Twenty - Something

Buttonz · #1 10-17-2003, 10:25 PM

They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis."
It is when you stop going along with the crowd and
start realizing that there are many things about
yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You
start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in
a year or two, but then get scared because you barely
know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish and that,
maybe, those friends that you thought you were so
close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have
ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are
some of the most important ones. What you don't
recognize is that they are realizing that too, and
they aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but
that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job... and it is not even close to
what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are
looking for a job and realizing that you are going to
have to start at the bottom and that scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what
others are doing and find yourself judging more than
usual because suddenly you realize that you have
certain boundaries in your life and are constantly
adding things to your list of what is acceptable and
what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the
next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest
force of your life. You feel alone and scared and
confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try
and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon
realize that the past is drifting further and further
away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you
loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed
and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough
that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love
someone but love someone else too and cannot figure
out why you are doing this because you know that you
aren't a bad person. One night stands and random hook
ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting
like an idiot starts to look pathetic.

You go through the same emotions and questions over
and over, and talk with your friends about the same
topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You
worry about loans, money, the future and making a life
for yourself... and while winning the race would be
great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!

What you may not realize is that everyone reading this
relates to it. We are in our best of times and our
worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure
this whole thing out.

smiley21 · #2 10-17-2003, 10:31 PM

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cashmoney · #3 10-17-2003, 10:32 PM

Ok, Smiley....thank you for being that chick who always brings up old threads.

smiley21 · #4 10-17-2003, 10:35 PM

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Originally posted by cashmoney
Ok, Smiley....thank you for being that chick who always brings up old threads.

honey, that is the second time that i have done that. today is the day i just figured out how to do it

Buttonz · #5 10-17-2003, 10:38 PM

Opps! Sorri, just got it in an email and it freaked me out how true it is, and I thoguth i would share it with you guys!

smiley21 · #6 10-17-2003, 10:39 PM

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Originally posted by Buttonz
Opps! Sorri, just got it in an email and it freaked me out how true it is, and I thoguth i would share it with you guys!

we still love you...just dont do it again

cashmoney · #7 10-17-2003, 10:45 PM

It ok, Buttonz.....Smiley is just tryin to show off her new found talent.lol

smiley21 · #8 10-17-2003, 10:46 PM

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Originally posted by cashmoney
It ok, Buttonz.....Smiley is just tryin to show off her new found talent.lol

yes, let me have my moment of glory

KillarneyRose · #9 10-18-2003, 12:12 AM

Careful Smiley & Cash; you're starting to act like an old married couple!

smiley21 · #10 10-18-2003, 04:56 AM

LOL!!!

cashmoney · #11 10-18-2003, 02:11 PM

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Originally posted by KillarneyRose
Careful Smiley & Cash; you're starting to act like an old married couple!

She's too southern for me.

smiley21 · #12 10-18-2003, 07:29 PM

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Originally posted by cashmoney
She's too southern for me.

i hope you mean cause i am in florida. cause i am as far from being southern as one could get. i am a yankee (philadelphian to be exact)

cashmoney · #13 10-18-2003, 08:57 PM

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Originally posted by smiley21
i hope you mean cause i am in florida. cause i am as far from being southern as one could get. i am a yankee (philadelphian to be exact)

Jacksonvilles got a dirty south flavor, be glad you're not from there.

smiley21 · #14 10-18-2003, 09:54 PM

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Originally posted by cashmoney
Jacksonvilles got a dirty south flavor, be glad you're not from there.

jacksonville's got a reputation that i am not aware of? enlighten me please.

etahannah · #15 10-20-2003, 12:37 PM

i just posted this in the quarter life crisis thread!! hehe...i knew someone else in here was falling apart just like me....