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Old 12-21-2000, 03:03 PM
ManndingoNUPE ManndingoNUPE is offline
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Now I am going to pose a question to my fellow Greeks, and black folks in general.

"Are we as tolerant of people within our own community who have different viewpoints, as we expect others to be of us?"

Ok, let me explain. I got an unsolicited e-mail forwarded to me from a friend, and this sista was on it talking about how we needed to mobilize, and we needed to do this and do that, and it was like a day or two before Gore conceded.

Now I simply shot back to her that I thought that it was time to let it go. The cards were stacked to high, and the person dealing the cards was not going to let you win (Federal Supreme Court, Governor Jeb Bush, The Republican Money Machine). I mean at what point do you focus your resources on a battle that you can win, as opposed to continue to fight on a playing field that is not of your choosing. Also for me, it was never a fight for Gore, it was more about having the votes that were not counted, count. Making sure that all of our people's votes counted in this election. It wasn't about party's, because we are too tied to the Dems, and the Rep. don't like us in my view.
This sista shot me back one of the most hateful e-mails I have ever gotten basically questioning my blackness, where would I be when folks were getting hung, basically calling me a Tom for not agreeing with her.

Now I happen to believe that we can all disagree without questioning someone's being black. Blackness is a state of being, not a way of thinking. It is not something that you can attain. Were that the case the millions of little white kids who run around here trying to imitate what they think an African American is, would be considered black.

But in our community we have a BIG, and yes I mean BIG problem with tearing down folks who choose to believe differently from what our "Black Leadership" believes.

I got mad love for those who came before us, and those who lead today, but hate to hear how we label folks on the Right Uncle Toms or house N*&^s. Come on, I may disagree with them, but we need to respect each others views.

For the record, I hope and pray that Collin Powell, and C. Rice do excellent jobs in their respective positions. As all of should, because they are now our country's leading voice on foreign affairs. I believe that Collin Powell happens to be in agreement with a lot of what we view as important in African American community. He is for Affirmative Action, he is for a woman's right to choice, he is has our children's best welfare in mind. Now I probably disagree with him on a lot, but he is not head of that division of the Executive.

I will not tear him or C. Rice down, but I will give them the opportunity to see what they can do. Our country's and our welfare depend on how well they do.

But we have to move beyond the hate speech that I see going on today. As my frat brother N4L said, it sickens me to hear about that Minister on the Right who basically called us all lazy and all that. That is not productive, and harms his cause, but I dislike hearing that type of speech from our side as much. And I believe that we are a lot more guilty of it that those on the right.

Let's respect everyone's views. I have heard some folks called everything except a child of God. I love Jesse, but sometimes I disagree with him, (well he is an Omega so that's not surprising)LOL. But for real, I believe that we need to move to make sure that we are mobilized within the next two years to make sure that the party that best represents our interest (most likely Democrats) are put into office. That is going to take a lot of hard work. We also need to make sure that folks votes count. All of this will not be accomplished by shouting. It will be accomplished by all of us working within our respective orgs, to make sure that our chapters work within our communities.

The time for shouting is passed, let's start working.

Peace and Luv

MN
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Old 12-21-2000, 03:44 PM
AKA2D '91 AKA2D '91 is offline
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Whew!

All I know is is that WE WILL NOT ALWAYS AGREE! Black (Af. Am), purple, white, green, pink, etc. I try to respect the opinion(s) of others.

I think that sista went way overboard! She seems to be one who believes...if it's NOT MY WAY, then it's NO WAY, OR THE HIGHWAY! (we all know people like that...especially around Greekchat. )

Anyway, it's hard to respect a person or even converse with someone who does not even listen at what you are saying. YOU DON'T HAVE TO AGREE WITH IT, but have the decency to absorb it or pretend that you are.

It seems like ole girl has some issues and needs to DIRECT her anger elsewhere!

I probably didn't answer the question, but that's just MHO.
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