What do you find sexy?

haroldjohnson · #1 07-12-2002, 03:37 AM

What's the damn deal peoples. I am just sitting here writing this poem about being Poetically Sexy. I had a discussion earlier about what sexy was and how can you tell when a shorty is truly sexy.

So I bring the question to you all. I would like to hear your opinions on what sexy is and if that is a quality cats look for in an opposite.

What do I think is sexy? - A poetic woman. I just love a woman who knows the fine art of being a wordsmith. Speech is sexy!

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Ideal08 · #2 07-12-2002, 11:38 AM

and pulled up a thread (Aight Bruhs) to help you along.

As far as my answers: conversation is a mental stimulant, coupled with eye contact is the bomb. A man who can dance and knows how to move is sexy, too. Being well groomed don't hurt! Beautiful smiles set it off, too!

I also like a nice walk, swagger, if you will. Musical ability, too, sing, play an instrument, that's sexy, too.

pretty_girl82 · #3 07-12-2002, 07:24 PM

I find smart ambitious men to be sexy. I don't like to be the one spitting knowledge all day. I love it when I can hold an intelligent convo with a man. So in lamest terms I like nerds

. Oh and I find a man who can handle his business (i.e school,work, family).

I know this is off the subject but I have one of the sexiest black men around and he is a super genius, like myself.

Secretluv · #4 07-13-2002, 10:23 PM

The qualities that I find sexy in a man include intellect, ambition, a sense of humor (this really scores major points), an appreciation for the arts (music, dance, & literature), poetic, a man that can dance is really sexy (I feel ya on that one Ideal08

) and a man that can dress ( I mean sharp- everything from casual to formal and then throw a lil' thuggish look in there every once in a while) !!! GOOD HYGIENE, full lips, and a nice build.

Steeltrap · #5 07-13-2002, 10:40 PM

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Originally posted by pretty_girl82
I find smart ambitious men to be sexy. I don't like to be the one spitting knowledge all day. I love it when I can hold an intelligent convo with a man. So in lamest terms I like nerds . Oh and I find a man who can handle his business (i.e school,work, family).

I know this is off the subject but I have one of the sexiest black men around and he is a super genius, like myself.

Nothing wrong w/black brainiacs. I'd LOVE to find a man who won't turn tail once I open my mouth. That's helluva lot more sexy than some idiot whose convo consists of yaknowaahsayin?

Honestly, I'm two years off 40 and haven't dated in a while. At this time in my life, looks for a man aren't a deal-breaker unless we're talking gold teefuses

and serious halitosis.

haroldjohnson · #6 07-14-2002, 12:29 PM

A yo, that's funny

Imhotep
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SweetestDiva · #7 07-15-2002, 12:48 AM

1. Intelligence. If you can't tell me the last book you read, we are going to have a problem.

2. CONFIDENCE. I love, love, love, love, LOVE a confident man. I like to see self-assurance in the way he walks, talks and behaves in a relationship.

3. Take-charge personality. Before I get clowned, please believe I will never be dominated, lol. But I like for my man to be able to take charge when necessary. Can you plan a date without my input if I ask you to? Indecision is a turn-off to me.

4. Eye contact. I gotta go with Soror Ideal on this one.. eye contact in (ahem) ANY situation is sexy and most appreciated.

5. Nice eyes and smile. I'm a sucker for bedroom eyes (see above, lol). And I love to see straight, white teeth. At LEAST have the white thing going on.

6. Spiritual. I love to see a black man pray.

::SHAMELESS PLUG::
haroldjohnson, I just had to shout you out since I see you go to UH... I go to Baylor.

fato · #8 07-15-2002, 11:02 AM

A woman's outer apperance! This has been deemed shallow by society, but I truly beleive that the way a person dresses and grooms his/herself is a true representation of the kind of person they are.

Now, I'm not looking for Fendi and Gucci everyday, hell she doesn't even need to wear the name brands that I know. But the way you put it all together ie: clothes neatly pressed, hair and nails presentable, and a sexy pair of shoes don't hurt. If she wears make-up, do it right or don't do it at all.

It's the little things that count!

P.S. I'm a sucker for a pretty face and a well dressed woman any day!

CrimsonTide4 · #9 07-15-2002, 11:04 AM

A man is sexy if he has the following

1. CONFIDENCE: A man who can approach me and be confident in what he has to offer me.

2. Intelligence

3. Career Oriented

4. Dancing skills

5. His smile & teeth

6. His walk

7. A BLACK MAN IN A SUIT **fanning myself** -- A brotha in a suit can just make my mind do some things.

8. His SMELL -- There was an Alpha who had this scent that made me go crazy. To this day, NO ONE quite compares to him.

9. Strong mind and body

10. His devotion to his family and friends and to God. Sweetest Diva is soooooo right about seeing a Black man pray and humble himself before God.

Dionysus · #10 07-15-2002, 11:05 AM

Men on trampolines.

haroldjohnson · #11 07-15-2002, 02:01 PM

Hey Sweetest Diva lets plan a Skee-Phi with your and I's chapter. Holla at me

SweetestDiva · #12 07-15-2002, 09:29 PM

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Originally posted by haroldjohnson
Hey Sweetest Diva lets plan a Skee-Phi with your and I's chapter. Holla at me

Sent you a PM.

Professor · #13 07-16-2002, 01:44 PM

Hell Yea - A woman that can put on a $10 dress and still turn everyhead in the room just by her style and grace catches my eye every time. It does not always require a designer name to pull off a desiger look. I like a woman with STYLE.

Quote:

Originally posted by fato
A woman's outer apperance! This has been deemed shallow by society, but I truly beleive that the way a person dresses and grooms his/herself is a true representation of the kind of person they are.

Now, I'm not looking for Fendi and Gucci everyday, hell she doesn't even need to weat the name brands that I know. But the way you put it all together ie: clothes neatly pressed, hair and nails presentable, and a sexy pair of shoes don't hurt. If she wears make-up, do it right or don't do it at all.

It's the little things that count!

P.S. I'm a sucker for a pretty face and a well dressed woman any day!

BlakIce · #14 07-24-2002, 11:28 PM

what is sexy?

sexy is............ a style, a look, a smile, a walk, an education, a baseball cap, a big sweatshirt, tight capri's, a future, a saved woman, a woman who knows what she wants, and most of all she must be a woman

ykimber · #15 07-25-2002, 07:43 PM

What is sexy:

A man with a goal in life

A well groomed man

A man with nice lips

A man with eyebrows that have been tamed not arched.

A man who can show emotions

A man who isn't afraid to say I love you.