breakups suck

AGDPrincess70 · #1 09-04-2003, 03:10 PM

Hey guys -- yeah, I know I haven't been around for a while, but I just need to vent.

So I broke up with my boyfriend last night. We had been together for almost a year, and I'm just sick about it. It's not that I don't love him or anything, because I do, but we are just completely opposite people. I thought for a long time that it was okay that we were so different, but it had gotten to the point where the only time I would see him was when he would show up at my place at 3 am after hanging out with his friends and we would just go to bed. I came to realize that we are just in different places in our lives. It sucks so much. I broke his heart, and I hate myself for it. I hate hurting people I care about.

I need a hug.

valkyrie · #2 09-04-2003, 03:15 PM

{{{hugs}}}

mu_agd · #3 09-04-2003, 03:16 PM

(((((hugs))))))

bethany1982 · #4 09-04-2003, 03:17 PM

Sorry to hear about your breakup. I hope the hurt passes quickly. It sounds like you are a really sensitive person, (It sucks so much. I broke his heart, and I hate myself for it. I hate hurting people I care about) and that can make it hurt even more. Indulge yourself right now. Do something for you. Hang with your Sisters and friends in places that don't remind you of him. My heart really goes out to you, and a hug is there.

aephi alum · #5 09-04-2003, 03:18 PM

Sorry to hear it...

Take care.

Imthachamp · #6 09-04-2003, 04:48 PM

no hug for you. i dislike girls who go around breaking the hearts of young, naive men who are just lookin for that special someone

i grieve for your boyfriend.

AchtungBaby80 · #7 09-04-2003, 06:23 PM

*HUGS* I know how you feel because I recently broke up with AchtungBoy...it's been a little while, but I still miss him. I hope we get back together at some point, but I'm kind of like you--I just think we're different people and we want things that are just too different.

Go to Dairy Queen and get an ice cream...it helps a little bit.

Lil' Hannah · #8 09-05-2003, 12:14 AM

My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday. Well, he broke up with me. I'm really bummed about it. "I love you but I don't think I'm in love with you." He said maybe he just needs a break. "I still want to be friends, I want that to stay the same." We have a huge group of mutual friends, but he was friends with them first. It's going to be awkward the next time we hang out

PM_Mama00 · #9 09-05-2003, 01:34 AM

Hugs to my Downriver Sister!!

This sayin is such a cliche, but there are so many more out there and you'll find the one.

Screw that! You'll get over the heartache and maybe you guys will realize you're for each other, maybe not. And if not, enjoy being single because you are young girlie!

Feel better and the best remedy for a heartbreak is to surround yourself with your girlfriends that you love.

erniegurl00 · #10 09-05-2003, 02:14 AM

Hugs to all of you who have recently broken up with your bfs. My bf and I broke up for a period of time over the summer. Luckily, we were able to get back together and still be fine. Maybe this may happen to some of you. Maybe it won't. But either way know that you girls all rock and don't need men!

I suggest hanging out with some girl friends or doing something fun!

DeltaBetaBaby · #11 09-05-2003, 07:57 PM

Whoa, is this breakup week? My dude split Monday night. I had a really hard time holding it together at work Tuesday...but then my friends came over and we bashed him for a few hours, and now I am doing okay.

IheartMATT806 · #12 09-05-2003, 09:10 PM

Dont sweat the small stuff babe...however harsh that may sound but i know what you are going through and I can speak for most that we have all experenced this.

You did the right thing if you both are so different. Just think of it like this: "A bird and a fish can love each other but where can they build their nest?" Im sure you both care about each other but in the way that DOESNT make a long lasting relationship stick. Stay strong..it will work out!

Take care...