How do you know?

[The Original Ape]

Much Love to my sistas! Can yall help the brothas out? Answer this for us: How does a brotha know that his woman is cheating?

[mizzkes]

Just a few:
**When you go out with your boys 3 times a week and she doesn't trip. (She doesn't care because when you are out she is doing her thing too)

**When she has to know EXACTLY what time you will be home from work or elsewhere. (She needs to know when to get her other man out of the house)

**When you are at her house, the phone rings and she doesn't answer it. (She knows it is probably one of her other men on the line)

**When she starts to go out with friends you have never met or even heard of. (Those people don't really exist, she made up those names, she is really going out with another man)

**When she dresses up to go to the library. (Brothers, she's not at the library)

[Sexy Mocha]

Just a few more:

*When, all of sudden, she's not responding to you the way she use to when you make love to her ...it's takes a lot out of her to be with two men...her energy level is not like it use to be

*Every time your at her house, she makes a mad dash for the phone whenever it rings

*If she doesn't reach the phone in time, she has a look of pure panic on her face as she realizes the person is about to leave a message (what if it's him?) "Hey baby, it's your boo...I'm just calling to see if we're on for tonight...."

*She's on the defense over the tiniest things. For instance, you say "I called your house last night and no one answered"....she replies "I didn't feel well, ok? Dang! Can't I go to bed early one day out of my life without you givin' me the third degree?? Gee, next time I want to turn my ringer off so I can get some rest I'll make sure I get your permission first!
OR you ask "Is that a new lipstick you're wearing?"....she says "Yeah? And? What are you tryin' to say?!?"

*She constantly calls/beeps you just to say "Where's my boo at?" In actuality, she needs to know where you're at..at all times, so you won't be making any SURPRISE trips to her place.

[Taykimson]

LOL - Mizzkes and Sexy Mocha. You guys are too funny!

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Alpha Kappa Alpha
17-Alpha Phi-91

[AKA2D '91]

Like that song from Joe's new CD says...

you know if she is cheating when she ***STUTTERS*****

[LadyAKA]

I think when you feel the need to ask, man your in trouble - your in real big trouble!!! (spoken the way wyclef sings in his song).

And ladies that run tricks why you letten the fella's in on the game????

[This message has been edited by LadyAKA (edited September 11, 2000).]

[LadyAKA]

Just joking about my last commmmmmment Ladies!!

[This message has been edited by LadyAKA (edited September 09, 2000).]

[mizzkes]

A few more:

**If your lady smells like Obsession and you wear cheap Brut (This may be a sign)

**If all of your frat brothers start whispering amongst themselves when she comes to the house (They probably know her a little better than you thought they did)

**If all of your frat brothers start suggesting you get tested for std's (They may know something you don't)

**If she goes to study groups with no books. (She's not studying, man!!)

**If your pictures are suddenly missing from her mantle. (She did not want to scare off the other man with your ugly mug)


[This message has been edited by mizzkes (edited September 10, 2000).]

[Positive Kay]

Yall are crazy!!!!

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Set your goal!! Strive!! Bask in your reward!!

Positive Kay

[Sexy Mocha]

LadyAKA is right! We can't be up in here revealing our tricks of the trade...Dang! How do we expect our game to be tight now?!? AKAtude, PLEASE put a lock on this one so no more of our little techniques can be told. LOL!

[The Original Ape]

Originally posted by LadyAKA:
I think when you feel the need to ask, man your in trouble - your in real big trouble!!! (spoken the wyclef says in the song).

And ladies that run tricks why you letten the fella's in on the game????

I'm gon remember you!

[The Original Ape]

Originally posted by Sexy Mocha:
LadyAKA is right! We can't be up in here revealing our tricks of the trade...Dang! How do we expect our game to be tight now?!? AKAtude, PLEASE put a lock on this one so no more of our little techniques can be told. LOL!

I'm gon rememba you too!

[AKA2D '91]

OH MY GOODNESS...YOU ARE TOO FUNNY!

[mizzkes]

To the comments about revealing our secrets: I had a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha tell me that even if she told me everything she went through during her process I STILL would not be ready (mentally) when it happend to me. So, this is the same way. I can tell these guys all of the warning signs and these brothers STILL will not be ready when it happens to them. Why? Because the sisters are SMOOTH like that!!

[The Original Ape]

Originally posted by mizzkes:
To the comments about revealing our secrets: I had a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha tell me that even if she told me everything she went through during her process I STILL would not be ready (mentally) when it happend to me. So, this is the same way. I can tell these guys all of the warning signs and these brothers STILL will not be ready when it happens to them. Why? Because the sisters are SMOOTH like that!!

That's awright! Just rememba; there's a price we all have to pay when we decide to play. Every game has its risks. Somebody's gotta win; and somebody gotta lose.