why? why? why? :)

alphachiohmy · #1 08-13-2003, 04:45 PM

So, I was in a friend's wedding this weekend and there were two semi-attractive men, one in the wedding party who appeared to be single at the rehearsal dinner, and another sitting by himself at the reception the next day.

All we talked about how cute wedding party guy was ... tall, muscular, nice eyes ... since the rehearsal dinner that Friday night. He was also single, so we deduced. Then, at the reception we noticed guy no. 2, also cute a little older. None of them seemed to put any effort into meeting, dancing with the ladies, but they were the only two kinda cute guys there, besides the 20-something catholic priest. I get sick and end up leaving early, but I went out with one of my friends last night and found out all I needed to now.

Turns out the only guys there, cute and single, were dating each other.

Yea for them, I guess, but us ladies were kinda let down.

etahannah · #2 08-13-2003, 04:51 PM

haha...i was reading that and before i could even get to the bottom of the post, all i could think about was that they are gay!! haha!!

and we lose 2 more...

***dances all by my lonesome***

Hootie · #3 08-13-2003, 05:17 PM

That sucks.

A few months ago I saw this really hot guy that worked at Yonkers...and since I'm a mall employee too I thought about introducing myself (somehow). I pointed him out to someone though and the girl knew him and was like, yeah, um he's gay. I was like damn, oh well, guess I won't embarass myself!

MeLikey · #4 08-14-2003, 01:12 AM

I went to the zoo on Saturday, and amidst all of the children and parents, I saw these 2 cute guys walking into one of the animal houses while my friends and I were exiting. I thought to myself, finally some cute guys! 20 minutes later I see them up ahead holding hands.

White_Chocolate · #5 08-14-2003, 11:44 AM

well, last night this hot guy was dancing with me
it was cool and everything until one of my guy friends came up
and he grabbed me and said 'forget it, lex . . .'
i was like, 'what?'
he was like 'he's flaming. . .he ain't going to date you'
(spoken like a true kentuckian)

i couldn't tell until later the guy asked to buy me a drink
and his hands were flailing the whole time he was talking to me
i couldn't do anything but stand there

MoonStar17 · #6 08-14-2003, 11:49 AM

SOOOOOOOOOOOO SAD! this has happened to me more times than i care to remember...sooooooooooo many HOT guys in miami are gay....

oh well... two more gone to the other team

lol

Sverige · #7 08-14-2003, 03:55 PM

This is a wierd situation. I went to a mall today just to see how many girls I could get to look at me and to get a painting to hang on the wall. I dressed nice. I went by myself. Everytime I would walk by a group of girls I wouldn't let them catch me looking at them while I noticed them checking me out. Now my question is this; if a guy is in the mall by himself and he looks attractive, do girls automatically think he's gay? I've been wondering if girls think I'm gay just because I'm in the mall by myself and I'm cute. The reason why I ask this is because recently I've been running into a bunch of gay problems. Myself and a friend were really drunk one night recently when we went out. We were so bombed that when we came back to my friends apartment we were actually at the wrong building and trying to get into the worng apartment. Some lady inside, who we thought was my friends girlfriend, said she wouldnt let us in and we started banging on the door and yelling at her. Next thing we know 6 cops show up and we're each in the back of a patrol car. I was so bombed I couldnt even talk to the cop whos car I was in. After we finally got everything straightend out and the police let us out of the cars, one of the cops asked us if we were gay. We said no, but one of the other cops told me I looked gay. I called him a shit kicker and told him he was two cunt hairs away from hillbilly heaven, that sent me back into the patrol car. Eventually they let us both go and we went inside the apartment. I just don't understand what makes someone look gay. I don't talk like a gay, my body motions don't make me appear to be gay. I'm wondering if it's the type of clothes I wear.

What do girls think makes someone look gay?

Tom Earp · #8 08-14-2003, 06:34 PM

Hey svergieness, I see you are still lurking around and crawling out from under some rocks!

JEEZE guy or what, you have been uncovered! DA!

LuaBlanca · #9 08-14-2003, 11:30 PM

Usually cute guys aren't single or alone...if they are- then it's a possibility that they're gay. A woman with a few gay friends will *probably* automatically think of this when she checks out a guy, but girls aren't afraid to have gay guy friends so they'll probably walk up and say hi regardless.

Has anyone ever seen/heard of Margaret Cho? This thread reminds me of her and her skit about "Fag Hags." (The gay guy's best girl friend.) She's an adorable Asian commidienne, and she has a DVD out called "I'm the one that I want"...I haven't seen the whole thing but what I did see cracked me up. She talks about hot gay guys and stuff. She rocks.