What should I talk about during rush?

USChica06 · #1 06-25-2003, 12:57 AM

Ok, we know the 5 B's 3 C's and 4 D's or something like that of what NOT to talk about. (I feel like the Count from Sesame Street. 3 C's. Muhahahahaha!)

What should I talk about!?!?!

Should I do my best to create a conversation off the topic of "So, where are you from? Chicago? Oh that's so cute! You have the accent. ChiCAAAGo."? And talk about something completley unrelated so that perhaps the rusher (is that a term?) can see the real me and not the robotic answer generator me? Or should I follow the lead of the rusher (again, I think I'm making this up) and answer the questions promptley and efficiently.

One question that always got me (when I went through rush last year) was "What are you looking for in a sorority?" Honestly, every house would fulfill what I was looking for in its own unique fashion. So anything I said sounded so cheesy. "I want a place that I have strong relationships with and that serves the community." See? Cheesier than Wisconsin.

I don't want to bring up high school awards and whatnot. I got those so I can get into college. I don't think XYZ would have an interest in giving a bid to me just because I was voted the "Most Efficient Lobbyist in the State of Illinois."

Time is precious.

I need to know (well, not need, but would really like) how to make the best impression in the 10 minutes or so we get. I know to be myself and whatnot. But I guess my question is, what topic/areas/points of my life should I aim to talk about?

Let the fun begin!

JohnsDGsweethrt · #2 06-25-2003, 02:25 AM

Here are a couple of suggestions

I think some or most universities have philantrophy rounds as 2nd round. Be sure and ask the sister specificly after you have said your hello to tell you all about their philantrophy and the activities that they do to raise money or support that philantrophy. The sister may start on this first but for me personally I loved when I was asked this question. If you have done previous volunteer work you could add your comments in as well.

Another good one is "Could you tell me about your sisterhood activities?" "Sisterhood is very important to me" (or whatever your own statement would be)

Also I think that something that would be impressive would be to "Please tell me (if you know I suppose) about the alumnae programs etc your sorority offers for involvement after college" Or "What ways are there to be involved in the sorority?" (ie offices held, directors of events etc)

You may have to re-word some of these b/c these were just my general thoughts. I think its great to ask questions in rush. I hope this helps...

SigEp_Stud · #3 06-25-2003, 03:03 AM

ask what the sorority has to offer you and see what goes on from there, cause remember, if you're what they're looking for in terms of looks, academics, and personality, then they're gonna try to sell their sorority to you.

If you have any questions, just ask them flat out, it shows interest. And go to their website and do a little research on them before you show up, you might come across some questions you want answered, and then would be the precise moment to bring them up.

I wouldn't even be nervous, just have fun, and keep in mind that they might want you as bad as you want them.

astroAPhi · #4 06-25-2003, 09:46 AM

I didn't know that a Chicago accent even existed until I came to Florida. Suddenly, any time I spoke someone would say "Da Bears!"

The first time you speak to a girl, I'd let them take the lead at first but DEFINITELY ask anything you want to know. They will want to introduce themselves and ask a few basic questions, but they will be very impressed if you ask them questions as well and they will be especially impressed if you know something about their group. Doing your homework pays off. Don't dominate the conversation because that's not what you'd do when meeting someone for the first time. These girls want to get to know you but you need to get to know them too! I know a lot of the stuff I say may sound contradictory, but it's all about balance. All you really need to do is have a good conversation. Feel free to open up and be yourself... robotic answers will not give the girls a look into your personality and you may not get the "fit" you want.

USChica, are you from the burbs or the city? I lived under an O'Hare flight path.

And good luck!

LeslieAGD · #5 06-25-2003, 12:37 PM

This is an excellent thread about rush questions:

Good Rush Questions

smiley21 · #6 06-25-2003, 11:49 PM

should i wait until philanthropy night to bring up related questions?

USChica06 · #7 06-26-2003, 12:16 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by astroAPhi
I didn't know that a Chicago accent even existed until I came to Florida. Suddenly, any time I spoke someone would say "Da Bears!"

USChica, are you from the burbs or the city? I lived under an O'Hare flight path.

And good luck!

I'm convinced that the people in SoCal are crazy and I do not have an accent.

I'm from da Burbs. No where near O'Hare, thank goodness.

Thanks!

honeychile · #8 06-26-2003, 12:59 AM

[thread hijack] Oh, there's a Chicago accent, all right! It's just not prevelant among the educated Chicagoans!

I have a friend who insists he watches "Nort-western" football "wit" friends - and can't understand why a speech therapist doesn't want to date him! AAARRRRGGGGHHHHH!!!!!
[/hijack]

Good to see you posting again, Bethany!

astroAPhi · #9 06-26-2003, 01:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by honeychile
[thread hijack] Oh, there's a Chicago accent, all right! It's just not prevelant among the educated Chicagoans!

I have a friend who insists he watches "Nort-western" football "wit" friends - and can't understand why a speech therapist doesn't want to date him! AAARRRRGGGGHHHHH!!!!!
[/hijack]

Alright, I do not do THAT.

I just like to say ChicAHgo.