Okay. One of my best friends from high school is getting married in September. Yes she is only 19, but it is not uncommon for people to get married right out of high school. It is about 10 of us in the wedding and we all agreed to support her in this even though we can't stand her fiancee( cheats,lies,etc.....) We feel that this is a major accomplishment that we conviced her not to elope after graduation last year and then she wanted to get married in Feb of this year. But she is our friend and we love her. Anyways she has already bought her dress and we are still looking for ours after 5 months

!ETA: I might have gotten the colors wrong at first so i'll just say dark cranberry.and she really wants our dresses to not cost more than $100 which is nearly impossible in this area. She has offered to pay $30-40 dollars on our dresses, which is nice even though I don't think she can really afford it. I don't really believe that she has worked a lot on this wedding so far, and I need a nice way to tell her that she needs to step up the pace. I understand that she is working and going to beauty school and because of my wedding experience I can help her out with a lot of the work since I am here for the summer. I think that she really believes that this is like a little party and not a huge event. There are so many things that we still have to do (invites, decorations, flowers). So what is a nice way(not pushy) to ask her about these things and tell her that I'm willing to help without coming off like a know it all?
By the way this is her dress:
http://www2.davidsbridal.com/bridalg...7&prodgroup=35
You can see the back if you click on the link.