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02-17-2003, 05:52 PM
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Whats your relationship ratio?
What do you weigh each aspect of a persons attribuites when you are considering going out with them? Percentage wise, for example: (not mine, btw. I still dont know what mine is)
30% looks
30% intellegence
20% attitude
20% sense of humor
I am just wondering how everyone scores potential dates/mates.
What are ya'lls thoughts? I know it isnt this scientific, but generally, If a fella is quite handsome is it ok if hes broke, has no future or is dumb as a bag of hair? Or what if a girl is intellegent, loaded, funny, sweet and caring, but looks like the back of a bus?
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02-17-2003, 11:11 PM
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If a fella is quite handsome is it ok if hes broke, has no future or is dumb as a bag of hair? Or what if a girl is intellegent, loaded, funny, sweet and caring, but looks like the back of a bus?
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LOL! Sorry. Just the way you worded all that was just amusing to me. Anyway, I guess I will try.
Looks-20%
Intellect/Common Sense-25%
Humor-25%
Bank Account-5%
Motivation-20%
Integrity/Honesty/All that stuff Dr. Phil talks about-25%
(This will prolly change as the thread grows.)
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02-17-2003, 11:25 PM
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Good topic!
40% looks
30% ambition
20% intellect/ability to communicate
10% love and appreciation of music/art
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02-17-2003, 11:36 PM
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20% looks/style
20% Christian background
20% At least middle class
20% Extroversion
10% Humor
5% Politically moderate
5% Intelligence
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02-17-2003, 11:49 PM
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I've been sort of thinking about this topic all day (hey, I had the day off -- what else am I going to do?) and I can't come up with an answer. I think that chemistry has a lot to do with it, and I'm not sure how to break that down into categories. Of course I value looks and intelligence and kindness and humor and all that...but I'm not sure what is most important. I can say that to me, money isn't important.
I guess when it comes down to it, I like someone who is the hot, male version of myself.
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02-17-2003, 11:59 PM
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Originally posted by valkyrie
I guess when it comes down to it, I like someone who is the hot, male version of myself.
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Amen! 
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02-18-2003, 12:04 AM
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Originally posted by valkyrie
I've been sort of thinking about this topic all day (hey, I had the day off -- what else am I going to do?) and I can't come up with an answer. I think that chemistry has a lot to do with it, and I'm not sure how to break that down into categories. Of course I value looks and intelligence and kindness and humor and all that...but I'm not sure what is most important. I can say that to me, money isn't important.
I guess when it comes down to it, I like someone who is the hot, male version of myself.
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See...this is why valkyrie is the coolest GCer alive. I mean after me, of course, lol.
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02-18-2003, 12:04 AM
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20% looks
20% intellegence/education
20% attitude/drive
10% sense of humor
10% faith
15% family values (or closeness to family)
5% income
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02-18-2003, 12:35 AM
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Originally posted by valkyrie
I guess when it comes down to it, I like someone who is the hot, male version of myself.
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My thoughts exactly.
If I HAD to break it down though it would go something like this
39%-looks
39%-intelligence/ambition
11%-sense of humor
10%-family values
1%-hmm whatever is leftover
I think that is 100% or around there.
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02-18-2003, 12:44 AM
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50% intelligence/interestingness/innovation
20% supportiveness
15% easygoing
10% looks
5% humor/silliness
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02-18-2003, 01:20 AM
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30% looks
30% personality
20% intelligence
10% family values
5% income
5% ambition
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02-18-2003, 02:18 AM
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hmmm...
I don't know the %'s really but characteristics in order of importance:
1- We are good friends (or that we can be, so in other words we have stuff in common and can talk/ relate to eachother well, and he's a generally nice guy)
2-Chemistry! I suppose this is superfically "looks" but it's a bit more complicated than that.
3- common sense and intelligence. I simply can't deal without one or the other.
(Actually, 1 2 and 3 are essential. It won't happen unless they are all there.)
4- on the big issues we agree. I love debate, but it would be nice if I don't get into heavy abortion arguements with my man.
5- No mental problems/ wierd realtionship issues. This is important.
6- That he has an idea of what his values are and how he wants to live his life. I don't have to want to be in his field, but I don't like it when people just sit on their asses. If you don't know what you want to do, start trying stuff!!!
That's about all I can think of at the moment...
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02-18-2003, 02:29 AM
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Originally posted by librasoul22
See...this is why valkyrie is the coolest GCer alive. I mean after me, of course, lol.
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Thanks!
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02-18-2003, 10:03 AM
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20% looks
25% intelligence
30% sense of humor/personality
15% respect/values
5% income
5% religion/faith
this is just an approximation....it's easy to say when i'm not actually looking for someone at the moment.
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02-18-2003, 12:52 PM
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I'm superficial
Brains 20%
Personality 20%
Looks 35%
Adventureness 5%
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