Time for me to hear what you guys think...
I've been dating this guy for a month...kind of scary because the month mark is usually when relationships dissolve for me.
Anyways, he is sweet (for Valentine's Day he made dinner with rose petals on the table...candles...yummy food...the works...), he's cute, he's smart, he likes my friends, he's family oriented, he's great
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Now this is where my situation gets kind of tricky. I told him that I like him a lot...but I can't spend the amount of time he wants to spend together. I have family, friends, sorority, school, work, impossible classes, and I need ME time too. He is the type of guy who spends 24/7 with the girls he is dating. I, on the other hand, still like to keep time for my girls. My friends mean a lot to me...
Here's the problem...he has told me he liked me before...but the other day we were talking and he said that it's hard for him to know how he feels because we hardly spend time together. This is where I need some opinions....is it me or do you guys just know how you feel about someone? You either like them or you don't...and he is starting this "I don't know how I feel stuff..." and it makes me want to say "well, you are a leech and I am not the type of girl who lives, eats, and breathes the guys she is dating...so it's been fun, but I'm gone." The only thing is that I like him a lot and I would feel like I am missing out on getting to know an amazing guy if I bail right now.
What do you guys think?
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