Is it too late to call him?

[Lady Pi Phi]

Okay, here's my situation

Last night I met a guy at a bar, and we struck up a conversation about all sorts of random stuff (none of which was sexual). I did have a couple of drinks, but not completely off my rocker.
At the end of the night he gave me his number and told me to call him and said that we should hook up sometime, which I suppose could mean sex, or actually a date, it's hard to say.
The problem is I'm not sure how interested I am in this guy, and I took his number. This bar happens to be a friday night spot for my friends and I and I know he goes their often. So, it's now monday...is it too late to call?

[valkyrie]

I would say it is definitely not too late to call. You just met him yesterday after all. I would think that, if anything, today might be too early to call. If you wanted to be really casual about it (since you're not sure you're really interested) you could call him later in the week, like on Wednesday, to see if he is going to the bar on Friday. Then maybe you could hang out a little more so you can see if you're interested enough to go on an acutal date.

Unless you just want to hook up hook up. Then you can call any time.

[Peaches-n-Cream]

It's not too late. Call him tonight or tomorrow and make a date for lunch this week. If you want to date him, lunch is low stress. Hey, maybe you'll have a Valentine.

[jennybloch]

Whenever guys have given me their number, I have always waited about a week to call them. They don't really live on the same time schedule that we do. A week means you have a life, but you're considerate enough to remember.

[justamom]

Daughter was just talking about this-
Two things are possible. One, you two had a great conversation and as the evening was winding up-he said, "Hey, you're cool call me." Two, same thing but add, he REALLY wants to get to know you better. Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference. She doesn't call them. First, they TOO have fingers that can operate a dial. Second she knows she will most likely run into them again and if the conversation is as great the second time, she will consider it IF it's appropriate. She is good friends with a lot of different bands that aren't always on a promotion schedule. So when a guy says, "Call me the next time they play..." She will IF she bumps into them again and the "vibes" are good. This happens a lot to her and when they ask, "Why didn't you call?"
she tells them either she wasn't sure she would be able to make it that night OR flat out, she didn't want them to think she was "persuing" them. (Even if she was interested.)

I guess I'm just old fashioned, but without an event-GRUB, FORMAL-I don't understand why a girl would positively respond to
"Hey, call me." I know there was a whole thread on this at one time, but I really think the guy should initiate the first activity, unless there is a real reason for the girl to make that call. But, like I said, I'm old fashioned. (Doesn't EVERY school have a Greek Directory?)

[Lady Pi Phi]

Well I decided not to call him. I realized i wasn't that interested.
If I was really that interested in him I would have asked for his number, or at least offered mine.
I tend to agree with Justamom. I do prefer it if the guy calls me. I figure if he was really interested he would have called me. I'm going back to this bar friday night, and if he's there, well I guess I'll see what happens. It not, who cares anyway.
Thanks for the advice.

[Optimist Prime]

I want a valentine. Its never too late to call a guy.

[Lady Pi Phi]

I'll be your valentine